Do you only tolerate certain people for one small reason?
Theres one guy I tolerate because he buys me beer sometimes. Other than that he irritates me
56-60, M
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VolpeTredici · 31-35, M
Fernie · F
No wonder your life is a mess...you keep posting what a mess it is...what a lousy thing to do ...using someone for booze even though you can't stand him..NOT nice...I think Karma is kicking your butt because of that behavior.
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Astro · 56-60, M
@Fernie I'm not entirely sure but I think a lot of it has to do with not having a father, being bullied, growing up in a time where being gay wasn't accepted as much as it is today. A lifetime's worth of bad decisions. Not being happy with who I am. I always wished I was white. Never was happy with how I looked or was. Theres just a lot.
Fernie · F
@Astro You do have a lot of self awareness and you are not at ALL defensive...you are brave enough to look at yourself and not lie to yourself ...that requires a LOT of inner strength. I wish I could tell you what a horrible childhood I had...and I nearly killed myself with booze and isolation because of it...I am TELLING you that you can get past this and stop hating yourself.
bijouxbroussard · F
No, not for so little as that. I’ve tolerated people I work with for an actual paycheck or because they’re the friend or family member of someone who [b]does[/b] mean something to me.