Why are some people mean?

People can be mean bullies. They are judging you and calling you mean names. Don't forget that they are cowardly bitter unhappy individuals who aren't satisfied with their own lives. Pay them no attention. Keep your power, don't give it away.

There are a number of reasons people are mean. It's rarely ever for no reason. They sometimes want to feel better about themselves by putting others down who they perceive as "weak", sometimes they're just having a bad day, sometimes hurting people like to hurt other people, and some people just get a thrill off of being mean, etc. Total strangers can target you and feel nothing bad about it at the end of the day. It isn't that we live in a cruel world, we just live among really cruel people. Stay strong.

I can't tell you why some people are mean, but they don't have the reasoning, compassion, and kindness that people generally want in a friend or partner. I personally have experienced it, so I know what you mean when you say it can be frustrating and upsetting.

Generally, they come from a shattered life where they usually have a dysfunctional family. It is a method of not feeling alone in pain

Well I don't have any friends either.and that is fine.but I'm not a cry baby I might cry a lot but it's not because I don't have any friends I used to.but not anymore. I'm not human

I don't understand. If you are alone all the time and don't want or have any friends...who is mean to you?