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popmol · 22-25, M
@MarkPaul thats impossible currently i'm a crow for a witch and bargening with an angel for a tear! i'm not pirate!
and btw online lynch mobs who ruin lives because someone 30 to 40 years ago might have done somethign bad to me sexually while we were both drunk which i don't remember details from and theres no evidence i'm sorry but thats insane.
and btw online lynch mobs who ruin lives because someone 30 to 40 years ago might have done somethign bad to me sexually while we were both drunk which i don't remember details from and theres no evidence i'm sorry but thats insane.
MarkPaul · 26-30, M
@popmol Even crows are forced (sometimes) to live in cages, pirate or not.
If someone did something bad to you (especially if it was sexually) yesterday, last year, or 45 years ago, it doesn't make any bit of difference. If they were wearing the clothes of a drunken student, sailor, pirate, or priest, it doesn't change anything including the life-long trauma the act causes. Quite honestly, it's insane to think (and act) like it does.
If someone did something bad to you (especially if it was sexually) yesterday, last year, or 45 years ago, it doesn't make any bit of difference. If they were wearing the clothes of a drunken student, sailor, pirate, or priest, it doesn't change anything including the life-long trauma the act causes. Quite honestly, it's insane to think (and act) like it does.
popmol · 22-25, M
@MarkPaul well thats fine but nor in the brig!
well i never said about what they wear. do i think woman and men should be a bit more modest maybe yeah but even if you're dressing like a slut you shouldn't be raped :p
well problem is i'm not saying if it really happened but its word against word only used against famous people or people in politics without any proof and if they say it ithey act like its instantly true.
well i never said about what they wear. do i think woman and men should be a bit more modest maybe yeah but even if you're dressing like a slut you shouldn't be raped :p
well problem is i'm not saying if it really happened but its word against word only used against famous people or people in politics without any proof and if they say it ithey act like its instantly true.
MarkPaul · 26-30, M
@popmol To a (real) crow a cage is the same as a brig.
My point is not about the clothes, but regardless of what character a person is, whether a student, sailor, priest, etc.
Finally, your media saturated mind only knows about celebrities because that is what the media focuses on (because that is mostly what you are interested in). Everyday people in everyday jobs experience sexual harassment and since sex [u]most[/u] often takes place between only 2 people, it will ALWAYS be word against word. Don't be so dismissive just because you have an intense desire to believe celebrities are always right.
My point is not about the clothes, but regardless of what character a person is, whether a student, sailor, priest, etc.
Finally, your media saturated mind only knows about celebrities because that is what the media focuses on (because that is mostly what you are interested in). Everyday people in everyday jobs experience sexual harassment and since sex [u]most[/u] often takes place between only 2 people, it will ALWAYS be word against word. Don't be so dismissive just because you have an intense desire to believe celebrities are always right.
MarkPaul · 26-30, M
@popmol Can you be any more lacking in sensitivity and compassion? Why do you choose to carry such a big (ugly) chip on your shoulder?
After experiencing a trauma and depending upon age, circumstance, and level of development most people go into hiding after a sexual encounter like that. They don't necessarily conform to your happy-go-lucky stance. Sorry for your inconvenience. But, do come again. 😬
After experiencing a trauma and depending upon age, circumstance, and level of development most people go into hiding after a sexual encounter like that. They don't necessarily conform to your happy-go-lucky stance. Sorry for your inconvenience. But, do come again. 😬
popmol · 22-25, M
@MarkPaul ugly chip on my shoulder? i don't understand that!
i do lack sensitivity and compassion, day by day i hate humans more! i'm broken and dead inside i love terror and chaos its fun to me. ask your god why i'm like this!
sorry but whatever happens sad or not go to the police and the people that say what happened to friends should tell them to get the fuck to the cops. 10 years later saying it on twitter but having no evidence its just people trying to ruin other lives. its too easy to exploit like religion and other things!
and those things should not exist.
i do lack sensitivity and compassion, day by day i hate humans more! i'm broken and dead inside i love terror and chaos its fun to me. ask your god why i'm like this!
sorry but whatever happens sad or not go to the police and the people that say what happened to friends should tell them to get the fuck to the cops. 10 years later saying it on twitter but having no evidence its just people trying to ruin other lives. its too easy to exploit like religion and other things!
and those things should not exist.
MarkPaul · 26-30, M
@popmol Ugly chip = a bitter and crappy attitude.
You assume everyone who speaks up 10 years later is just doing it to ruin someone else's life. But, you have no evidence of that. So, why don't you go to the police with your opinions that offers no proof, just emotion.
And, for the record, "my" God says you have the free will to choose how you want to be. So, take some of your own advice and stop blaming everyone else for your hatred of humans.
You assume everyone who speaks up 10 years later is just doing it to ruin someone else's life. But, you have no evidence of that. So, why don't you go to the police with your opinions that offers no proof, just emotion.
And, for the record, "my" God says you have the free will to choose how you want to be. So, take some of your own advice and stop blaming everyone else for your hatred of humans.
popmol · 22-25, M
@MarkPaul well the longer i'm here the more bitter i get i'm sorry xD
and they have no evidence for the rape its just shouting out things but the problem is jsut saying someone raped you with or without proof fake or not it already ruins it and rape is a strong word.
haha i'm not raped xD
i blame shitty people for my hatred for humans and my twisted vision of humanity.
and they have no evidence for the rape its just shouting out things but the problem is jsut saying someone raped you with or without proof fake or not it already ruins it and rape is a strong word.
haha i'm not raped xD
i blame shitty people for my hatred for humans and my twisted vision of humanity.
MarkPaul · 26-30, M
@popmol Well, there's your problem right there. You CHOOSE to associate with shitty people and you CHOOSE to be influenced by them and you CHOOSE to have hatred and a twisted vision in your heart and mind.
The idea that rape didn't occur, in your mind, because there is no evidence is like saying a murder didn't occur because no one can find the dismembered body. NEWSFLASH... the murder still occurred. And, sadly rape still occurs. Everything isn't always going to be neatly packaged and spelled out for your self-indulged royal convenience.
The idea that rape didn't occur, in your mind, because there is no evidence is like saying a murder didn't occur because no one can find the dismembered body. NEWSFLASH... the murder still occurred. And, sadly rape still occurs. Everything isn't always going to be neatly packaged and spelled out for your self-indulged royal convenience.
popmol · 22-25, M
@MarkPaul well my family is shitty can't do much about that :p i live at home until i can leave. well i see what humans are capable off :)
well yes but without proof you can only say you are raped you should only say who the rapist is when you can prove it. for example if thye would tell me i raped someone while i never even touched a woman that would mean i would find it harder to gain jobs people would judge me a lot people would hate me i would find it harder to find a job even if its not true. or the same thing but we did somethign we were both drunk but she says she feels raped i don't remember it happened we were both intoxicated then i'm still villainised like hell.
i say call the cops they are there to help you! mmight not be the first day the first week the first month maybe not even the first year (thats a bit late ) but a decade or 2 later unless it was caught on tape and stored you cannot prove squat!
well yes but without proof you can only say you are raped you should only say who the rapist is when you can prove it. for example if thye would tell me i raped someone while i never even touched a woman that would mean i would find it harder to gain jobs people would judge me a lot people would hate me i would find it harder to find a job even if its not true. or the same thing but we did somethign we were both drunk but she says she feels raped i don't remember it happened we were both intoxicated then i'm still villainised like hell.
i say call the cops they are there to help you! mmight not be the first day the first week the first month maybe not even the first year (thats a bit late ) but a decade or 2 later unless it was caught on tape and stored you cannot prove squat!
MarkPaul · 26-30, M
@popmol Who the hell brings video equipment to an unwanted sex encounter? Are you even thinking about what you are writing? And, if you are operating under the foolish idea that being drunk somehow excuses bad behaviour, then you are not ready to leave home (possibly ever!).
And, if you didn't do it (rape), then state your own case. But, if you did, take it like a man (like you gave it) and face the consequences.
And, if you didn't do it (rape), then state your own case. But, if you did, take it like a man (like you gave it) and face the consequences.
popmol · 22-25, M
@MarkPaul no i mean a camera might catch the moment he takes you to the place. also if you go to the cops early enough they can do dna test.
no i was saying both are drunk if you afterward think you didn't want to have sex then you're just dumb. haha but the last thing is probabaly right :)
well no shit i would face the consequences but i wouldn't rape!
well yeah but even if your not guilty and its proven you're still ruined.
no i was saying both are drunk if you afterward think you didn't want to have sex then you're just dumb. haha but the last thing is probabaly right :)
well no shit i would face the consequences but i wouldn't rape!
well yeah but even if your not guilty and its proven you're still ruined.
MarkPaul · 26-30, M
@popmol Yeah, but you make it sound like women (and some men, I guess) are just waiting to making false claims for the sake of ruining the lives of the rest of us. That just doesn't seem likely. Perhaps you are watching too many movies. No movies for you for a month! To the brig, with you!!!
popmol · 22-25, M
@MarkPaul you guess some men? at lea&st go by everyone can be raped and they are raped :p or sexual assault.
haha well its less likely but there has been enough woman and others to give us doubt a men who got out of prison without anythign else because his rape was false that man should have been given his weight in gold for god sake.
seems unlikely but lots of people still think whetever a woman says is true so i mean its dangerous.
haha well its less likely but there has been enough woman and others to give us doubt a men who got out of prison without anythign else because his rape was false that man should have been given his weight in gold for god sake.
seems unlikely but lots of people still think whetever a woman says is true so i mean its dangerous.
MarkPaul · 26-30, M
@popmol What you choose to keep missing is when someone goes through a trauma like that, they often are not able to bring themselves to go to the cops.
The positive side of the "MeToo movement" and the genuine intent of it (before it became over-hyped and politicized) was to encourage people to come forward and not repress their feelings or blame themselves as you seem to want to do to them.
The problem isn't that they and their attacker may have been drunk or that they didn't tell anyone or that they are now speaking out. The problem is that hate-filled humans like you insist, because they were silent, they should stay that way and continue to live with the aftermath of their silence as you sit on your fat ass and rejoice.
The positive side of the "MeToo movement" and the genuine intent of it (before it became over-hyped and politicized) was to encourage people to come forward and not repress their feelings or blame themselves as you seem to want to do to them.
The problem isn't that they and their attacker may have been drunk or that they didn't tell anyone or that they are now speaking out. The problem is that hate-filled humans like you insist, because they were silent, they should stay that way and continue to live with the aftermath of their silence as you sit on your fat ass and rejoice.
popmol · 22-25, M
@MarkPaul a friend?
its a witch hunt now. its people saying you are a rapist and there life is already ruined before there is evidense or a trial to my knowledge.
thye don't have to be silent but whats the point if you say it now when it happened 20 years ago and you can't prove it?
its a witch hunt now. its people saying you are a rapist and there life is already ruined before there is evidense or a trial to my knowledge.
thye don't have to be silent but whats the point if you say it now when it happened 20 years ago and you can't prove it?
MarkPaul · 26-30, M
@popmol I don't know what you mean by "a friend?"
The point is to stop repressing the memory and for them to stop blaming themselves. Again, you seem to think that all sexual encounters take place with cameras, lighting, and crew members who can serve as witnesses. But, in the real-world, it's usually just between 2 people, so whether speaking up takes place that same day, the next day, the following month, or 45 years later, it will always be one person's word against another.
Now that you know how sex and sexual harassment works, let me tell you the truth about Santa Claus... 🎅
The point is to stop repressing the memory and for them to stop blaming themselves. Again, you seem to think that all sexual encounters take place with cameras, lighting, and crew members who can serve as witnesses. But, in the real-world, it's usually just between 2 people, so whether speaking up takes place that same day, the next day, the following month, or 45 years later, it will always be one person's word against another.
Now that you know how sex and sexual harassment works, let me tell you the truth about Santa Claus... 🎅
popmol · 22-25, M
@MarkPaul they often go to a friend they should instantly go to the police.
then how do all the other rapes get confirmed? genetic test and such but those have to be done soon after the accident!
do you not understand if you let people casually call people rapist without proof then even if it really happened it gives too much power to people who use it for malcontent. theres a lot of examples and theres one where 5 girl team up and say a guy raped on of them and he was blamed but it was fake. its scary as fuck.
he is a rapist burglar going all through your stuff.
then how do all the other rapes get confirmed? genetic test and such but those have to be done soon after the accident!
do you not understand if you let people casually call people rapist without proof then even if it really happened it gives too much power to people who use it for malcontent. theres a lot of examples and theres one where 5 girl team up and say a guy raped on of them and he was blamed but it was fake. its scary as fuck.
he is a rapist burglar going all through your stuff.
MarkPaul · 26-30, M
@popmol So, you mean, based on your one experience that you read about... who knows where... you think anyone who claims rape is now a lying attention seeking whore? Your mind is so twisted and perverted that you show no command of logic.
People shouldn't remain silent because someone's life might become ruined. But, people shouldn't falsely accuse others of acts that never were committed. End of story.
People shouldn't remain silent because someone's life might become ruined. But, people shouldn't falsely accuse others of acts that never were committed. End of story.
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