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IAmNothing · 26-30, F
@cunningcrocodile I just want to know why you want me to PM you all of a sudden
cunningcrocodile · 31-35, F
@IAmNothing Well i could have seen what you look like and see if you really are this mess you claim you are.
IAmNothing · 26-30, F
@cunningcrocodile I have a post somewhere on my profile showing how I look. It's probably buried now.
cunningcrocodile · 31-35, F
Oh right yeah, because men aren't judged on their looks too. If a guy is fat, they don't get to call themselves "bubbly" and have social circles pressure women to still find them attractive and bully them if they dont. They don't get to pretend that comments about their weight is "fat shaming", they cant throw away responsibility and blame failures on a patriarchy. I could go on. My partner in the past has been rejected over reasons to do with his appearance, height and disability countless times.
InvaderNice · 26-30, M
@IWasCallingYaLarry No it’s not lol
IWasCallingYaLarry · 26-30, M
@InvaderNice yes it is. You're doing that now. Facts don't care about anybody's feelings dude. Remember that.
InvaderNice · 26-30, M
@IWasCallingYaLarry I didn’t state any facts.
IWasCallingYaLarry · 26-30, M
That's not true at all. Especially seeing as there are some guys into fat women or women with small boobs. Most people don't like fat people as dating partners or life partners in general because of them not taking proper care of themselves. People are normally attracted to people who take care of themselves and have their shit together. It's in our nature. I don't want a Barbie doll girlfriend at all. I don't wanna date a whale, but I'm not gonna date someone who is way too skinny either. That's also not healthy. I don't care for boob size either. I'm more of an ass man. But if a girl I like has a great personality and we connect and she just so happens to have a nice ass, that's just a bonus. You can't control what other people are attracted to. Some people only will date someone who is a specific race or skin color, or someone who is a specific weight type, or specific gender or something else. That's okay. We all have our preferences whether you're black, gay, lesbian, trans, morbidly obese, skinny, etc. There's nothing wrong with that. You're using your feelings as though that's the truth but in reality it isn't the truth because it varies with everyone. It depends on who you talk to is all I'm saying. I love Asian girls, British girls, Russian girls, but does that mean I won't date a girl if she isn't one of those? No, of course not. I just prefer them more is all.
cunningcrocodile · 31-35, F
@IWasCallingYaLarry I agree with you. There are some fat people that act like their weight is some uncontrollable discriminatory to judge feature like a disability, when in reality it is a measure of your character. In special circumstances sure you may have certain health conditions that make it hard to not put on weight but 9 times out of 10 they just don't want to look after themselves. They were probably born into a family with the same low standards, they actually see very unhealthy lifestyles as normal, i know people like it. I know people that see having sausage rolls, chocolate, burgers etc each day as normal, and diagnosed morbid obesity as "I've always been a big person"
IWasCallingYaLarry · 26-30, M
@cunningcrocodile That's my point. Also, as a rotund man myself ago is currently working extremely hard to fix my weight problem and has lost almost 30 lbs now, I get it. But the thing is is that being fat is not okay. It's not healthy. It's not a race or sexual preference or a religion or anything else some people will compare it to. It's a physical health condition that people have. If anyone expects society to change just for them to "get rid of biases." instead of being responsible for themselves like most adults should be, then they're just lazy and don't wanna change themselves.
JaggedLittlePill · 46-50, F
@DarlingSelah fuck! I love you!😂
IWasCallingYaLarry · 26-30, M
IAmNothing · 26-30, F
@Notmesam it's true look what all the guys drool over
IWasCallingYaLarry · 26-30, M
@Notmesam SJWs did. Or crazy feminists.
InvaderNice · 26-30, M
So many people telling you you’re wrong. I think you’re right.
cunningcrocodile · 31-35, F
@InvaderNice If I were here to pick fights I would continue to argue with you when it was clear that you had no intention of being honest. I don't want to fight so kindly piss off, please.
InvaderNice · 26-30, M
@cunningcrocodile Tell me what made it clear that I have no intention of being honest.
InvaderNice · 26-30, M
JaggedLittlePill · 46-50, F
IAmNothing · 26-30, F
@JaggedLittlePill for the most part they do
JaggedLittlePill · 46-50, F
@IAmNothing They don't. I have been around double your age in years and I think I might have a bit more experience... so get off the self pity train chickadee.
IAmNothing · 26-30, F
@JaggedLittlePill well where on earth then do you see people like me with anybody? you don't
butterfly1013 · 26-30, F
butterfly1013 · 26-30, F
@IAmNothing You can start by changing that profile picture... ever heard of the law of attraction? When you project those ideas unto yourself all you're going to do is attract more negativity.
IAmNothing · 26-30, F
@butterfly1013 not going to change it
butterfly1013 · 26-30, F
@IAmNothing You don't have to, that's completely up to you, but ....... yeah...... and the username.. why do you feel like that about yourself? As long as you believe these things it's all you're going to attract. I Know it sounds crazy, but the universe can be a bit tricky... anyway be good to yourself.
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IWasCallingYaLarry · 26-30, M
@AgapeLove Well said. These are words of wisdom I think everybody needs to hear from you. Not being sarcastic btw. I totally agree with you.
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Oh yeah, I can see how you think that tho going by the boring airbrushed nude models posted here. It's all fake and posed just remember that.
IAmNothing · 26-30, F
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@IAmNothing Rephrase; [b]what I have IS enough[/b]
IntenseCookie · 26-30, F
InvaderNice · 26-30, M
@DDonde Women are judged more harshly on their looks than men.
DDonde · 31-35, M
@InvaderNice That may be true, I do not know. But I do know that the statement "if you don't look like a barbie doll, then nobody will want you" is false.
InvaderNice · 26-30, M
@DDonde I didn’t take her too literally. I figured she exaggerated her point to make it more impactful.
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blindbob · 41-45
if a guy is ugly or fat, he can work hard and his success or intelligence will make up for his looks. no man is going to overlook ugliness in a woman if she happens to be smart or successful.
JaggedLittlePill · 46-50, F
@blindbob interesting your name is "blind"bob.
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder and what one man may not be attracted to another will be. That is the natural way of things. Fuck, man.
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder and what one man may not be attracted to another will be. That is the natural way of things. Fuck, man.
Virgo79 · 61-69, M
Well 6' is to tall, and that height at 100 lbs would be sickly looking in my opinion.
And that's the truth☺
And that's the truth☺
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i disagree, but also i don't really want anyone to want me 99% of the time so it all works out
xixgun · M
And being a grey bearded 5’5” man is supposed to make me a chick magnet?
IAmNothing · 26-30, F
@xixgun as long as you got money who cares
kentex35 · 100+, M
I'm blond and found two blonds dont make right. Anyway I'm a leg man. And ancient at that.
plungesponge · 41-45, M
Guys are the same except it's about money and height
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IAmNothing · 26-30, F
@strangerthanfiction okay brown hair 100lbs blue eyes and giant boobs and 6 feet tall
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No.
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IAmNothing · 26-30, F
@iamBen there aren't any my age looking for anyone like me they all want barbie fantasty
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