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Doesn't it suck to be a woman knowing that if you don't look a certain way nobody will care about you or want you?

If you aren't the perfect 6'0 100lbs size 0 blonde hair blue eyes big giant boobs malibu barbie doll or anywhere near any of that nobody is going to want you and that is the darn truth.

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IWasCallingYaLarry · 26-30, M

That's not true at all. Especially seeing as there are some guys into fat women or women with small boobs. Most people don't like fat people as dating partners or life partners in general because of them not taking proper care of themselves. People are normally attracted to people who take care of themselves and have their shit together. It's in our nature. I don't want a Barbie doll girlfriend at all. I don't wanna date a whale, but I'm not gonna date someone who is way too skinny either. That's also not healthy. I don't care for boob size either. I'm more of an ass man. But if a girl I like has a great personality and we connect and she just so happens to have a nice ass, that's just a bonus. You can't control what other people are attracted to. Some people only will date someone who is a specific race or skin color, or someone who is a specific weight type, or specific gender or something else. That's okay. We all have our preferences whether you're black, gay, lesbian, trans, morbidly obese, skinny, etc. There's nothing wrong with that. You're using your feelings as though that's the truth but in reality it isn't the truth because it varies with everyone. It depends on who you talk to is all I'm saying. I love Asian girls, British girls, Russian girls, but does that mean I won't date a girl if she isn't one of those? No, of course not. I just prefer them more is all.

cunningcrocodile · 31-35, F

@IWasCallingYaLarry I agree with you. There are some fat people that act like their weight is some uncontrollable discriminatory to judge feature like a disability, when in reality it is a measure of your character. In special circumstances sure you may have certain health conditions that make it hard to not put on weight but 9 times out of 10 they just don't want to look after themselves. They were probably born into a family with the same low standards, they actually see very unhealthy lifestyles as normal, i know people like it. I know people that see having sausage rolls, chocolate, burgers etc each day as normal, and diagnosed morbid obesity as "I've always been a big person"

IWasCallingYaLarry · 26-30, M

@cunningcrocodile That's my point. Also, as a rotund man myself ago is currently working extremely hard to fix my weight problem and has lost almost 30 lbs now, I get it. But the thing is is that being fat is not okay. It's not healthy. It's not a race or sexual preference or a religion or anything else some people will compare it to. It's a physical health condition that people have. If anyone expects society to change just for them to "get rid of biases." instead of being responsible for themselves like most adults should be, then they're just lazy and don't wanna change themselves.