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What do you do if you don't really want to keep in touch with someone but don't want to be rude?

Is it the thought of being rude or the thought that you do not wish them to feel rejected...cast aside as though they were completely worthless and should never have interacted with you in the first place...?
SW-User
Slowly fade away and only answer about half of their messages until they get the hint or just move on. Works pretty good for me.
wstcstrob · 46-50, M
You do the usual, I'll call/text ya and then don't. They won't see it as rude because it happens all the time.
Jibby · 56-60, C
Well how could it bother you if you're not keeping in touch with them
Skeleton · 26-30, F
@Jibby they text me
Jibby · 56-60, C
@Skeleton you could block the number easily text and everything.. it's like blocking someone on here only with a normal person
Thevy29 · 41-45, M
Dunno, I'm usually on the reverse end of that.
Killroy59 · 61-69, M
@Thevy29 lol that tough man !!!
TacoCat · 26-30, M
"I'm dead so I can't talk to you"
Killroy59 · 61-69, M
Tell him to take a long walk on a shot pier , tell him to gedafukoutahere, tell him your boyfriend who was in prison for breaking the legs on this guy who just looked at you is coming home, tell him you just found out you got an STD .
I mean what da fuck does he know ? It’s all a lie anyway
Dan193 · 31-35, M
Never ask questions and always give 1 word answers.
Skeleton · 26-30, F
@Dan193 they don't really get that hint
Dan193 · 31-35, M
@Skeleton keep doing it, also take forever to answer and they'll get annoyed enough to not want to text u anymore.
Or you could say that you have a bf and how wonderful he is, and if they say prove it, show them my picture, and they'll leave u alone.
Skeleton · 26-30, F
@Dan193 well I hope it'll work
SW-User
I tell them exactly that.. or if I think it’s going to be a hassle or if I’m too busy I just stop replying
SW-User
It depends on why i guess. If they were once important to you...or you know you are to them....be honest, tell them why...and consider their feelings.
Its terribly unpleasent being on the other end of this not not knowing why.
@SW-User I’m sure it is but if they ever meant anything to me. I wouldn’t block them without some kind of indirect warning or if we were having an argument and I told them to leave me alone but they wouldn’t.
SW-User
@Gingerbreadspice its seems to be the norm these days. All im saying is...even the people in yr PC and phone have feelings.
Many forget that.
I dont know your story. If you feel the only way yo get rid of them is to block and ghost them.....then thats what you must do.
SW-User
I just go silent.
cheesyAF · 31-35, M
It's not you, it's my mum.

 
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