@CountScrofula that sucks. Maybe you give off a disingenuous vibe? Or maybe dudes fucked it up for you which is more likely. I mean after so many years I wouldn't question it.
@WanderLustChick It's all online with people who don't know me, I've never really had that accusation in person. And yeah. I think it's a stereotype people really want to believe so don't need many cases to start saying it's widespread, lol.