Mixed feelings.

No. That's stupid Hallmark movie bullshit. It never works out well.

Making others happy makes you happy, if you try putting yourself before others you won't have happiness

found this one

We should put our basic needs first, yes, but happiness? I agree with djones and Aden02 on this. Making others happy should make us happy. The only exception is people who just suck the life out of us and give nothing back. Those people need to be put at the bottom of our priority list.

With someone I care about It's like this (I'll use my wife as an example)...What she thinks, wants, needs, feels, believes, desires, etc. is just as important to me as my own and sometimes even more so. It's just a matter of priority based on respect and consideration.

you need to be happy but so do others. you should be happy making the people you care about happy.

At your age ? YES !
You're young ! Plenty of time for all that 'Grown-Up' stuff later in life !

NO unless it's your children.., which in your case I doubt

No

That's a good thing to have mixed feelings about.

Because the answer is yes or sometimes or no. There really isn't a constant.

Damn right. My happiness comes first and foremost. Since I’m the most important person on this planet. 😈

Kinda. So long that it won't keep others from being happy.

tuff questy. Co-dependence says yes, but gold heart says no

Yes, life is too short, so do whatever makes YOU happy

not fully but to some degree yes, you need to be a bit selfish in this world. Just don't hurt people and don't throw anyone under a bus.

No what for that will end bad 😊