How many years of therapy and meds do you think is enough before it's acceptable for someone to finally just give up?

Over my life it took me about 100 hours of therapy to come to terms with the degradation inflicted on me as a child/young adult.
Until one day I decided that I had been "therupped out".
I knew who I was and why I was who I was.
I was able to accept that what happened to me was beyond my control and I learnt to accept that I am who I am because of that early life of adversity. It made me a very powerful, empathetic person and I love the person I have become.