@Bootsiebaby Yes! exactly. I believe a guy can be strong and confident as well as being sensitive and understanding and be in a well balanced relationship with no anger or controlling from either partner. I was in such a relationship and it was the greatest thing ever. Thanks, she had breast cancer for the final 8 years. She was so brave... i miss her :(

@Bootsiebaby Thank you.. it's a difficult thing to find the words to describe. For years I used to take her to the chemotherapy ward for her treatment and I met so many others going through it. I got to know them over months and years, all their personal stories, their struggles and triumphs, even their families too... but one by one they were like friends I was losing... a wake up call every time to what will eventually happen. I'd come in and their seat was taken and I'll never forget the cold feeling each time that would happen. But I always thought my girl would get through... I was so sure she would... :(

It's worth mentioning that gay guys aren't always as they're portrayed in the media. They're just as diverse as straight guys. :p They can be ultra masculine, and macho, or out-of-touch with their emotions too.
[b]The only thing sexual orientation dictates is who you're attracted to.[/b] Who you happen to be attracted to, and the people you're around can influence your personality and lifestyle, this is true for everyone. 🤷‍♀️