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Are you the real you when online ?

SW-User
Yup. I can't be anyone else.
SpiritOfSoul · 31-35, F
@SW-User Many may differ from what they are in real life
SW-User
@SpiritOfSoul tooo true. Fuck that
SW-User
@SW-User @SW-User I like big butts, I can not lie... when in truth I just actually love expression ;-)
MissPriscillaPrim · 70-79, T
I use the name of my fantasy dress-up persona on this site for two reasons: sometimes for cheezy erotic role-play with like-minded queers (see my Charm School posts if innarested -- Please don't if you're not). More often, when I write from my honest observations, the name filters out both the pious Pharisee gender-bigots and those too shallow to look beyond names & images. This comment contains nudity... metaphorically
SpiritOfSoul · 31-35, F
@MissPriscillaPrim fair enough
UndercoverBard · 31-35, M
I try to be for the most part. But I don't even know who that is anymore
SpiritOfSoul · 31-35, F
@UndercoverBard Fair enough
SpiritOfSoul · 31-35, F
Not many are same
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SpiritOfSoul · 31-35, F
I hope that suits you
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SpiritOfSoul · 31-35, F
@silkydrawers yup, surely
SW-User
Yup. Direct af. . everywhere
SW-User
@SpiritOfSoul Im genuine.
Gets me hurt everytime... 😔
SpiritOfSoul · 31-35, F
@SW-User Stay that way!
SpiritOfSoul · 31-35, F
Just be yourself
JRVanguard · 26-30, M
This is the only place I feel I can be
SpiritOfSoul · 31-35, F
SpiritOfSoul · 31-35, F
Good to be frank about it!
SW-User
Idk. I'm a mess
SpiritOfSoul · 31-35, F
@SW-User Oh !
SpiritOfSoul · 31-35, F
Thank you for being honest!
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donut · 26-30, M
@nadine Oh Yes
SpiritOfSoul · 31-35, F
@nadine good
SpiritOfSoul · 31-35, F
Few manage to remain the same
GJOFJ3 · 61-69, M
Yes I am just who I am
GJOFJ3 · 61-69, M
@SpiritOfSoul It's a thin line to walk to be myself while protecting my anonymity
SpiritOfSoul · 31-35, F
@GJOFJ3 Awesome!
Raythedevil · 56-60, M
@GJOFJ3 That's pretty much what I just tried to say.
RemovedUsername8862 · 26-30, M
I don't know - I think that, in all things, I emphasize different aspects and desires of myself at different times and places online, just like in real life. If I'm hanging out with friends, I say something, family another, work a third, and others who have similar interests a fourth. If I'm on SW, I am different than on Facebook, or on Loverslab, or elsewhere. I don't have one online personality alone.

Still, there's a core of my base traits and beliefs, not to mention tone and voice, that seems pretty consistent.
SpiritOfSoul · 31-35, F
SpiritOfSoul · 31-35, F
Thank you for an honest response
sunrisehawk · 61-69, M
On-line or in person, I am always the real me. However, depending upon the situation the amount of me that I choose to share will differ.
SpiritOfSoul · 31-35, F
@sunrisehawk great!
SpiritOfSoul · 31-35, F
Just the way to be @sunrisehawk
Midlifer · 61-69, M
Absolutely. There are things I can say here that I can only wish I could do off line. I hope to change that someday
SpiritOfSoul · 31-35, F
@Midlifer Super!
SpiritOfSoul · 31-35, F
That does sound so honest
Midlifer · 61-69, M
@SpiritOfSoul thank you, and I had a chance to be more like my tie self today. Very therapeutic
am the same me here as am in offline life. The concept of real doesn't fit into these two worlds.
SpiritOfSoul · 31-35, F
@sspec good
SpiritOfSoul · 31-35, F
@sspec best way to be
Rusham · M
I thought I was very genuine, honest and real online and then I did this test.......
http://www.gotoquiz.com/results/how_real_are_you_3
I think it isn't real. LOL
Raythedevil · 56-60, M
@Rusham @SpiritOfSoul Interesting quiz...it does say it's basically a feminine test too.

How real are you???

Your Result: down to earth

81%

you have it all together guys usually see you as a girl to take home to mom and in the long run thats whop you want to be however sometimes you tend to let "you" out a little too much all at once and this can be bad its okay to be subtle just dont be someone else be you a little at a time and you will wow everyone

35%
a little fake

31%
Plastic
Rusham · M
I agree that it was an interesting test that made me have to think. @Raythedevil
Raythedevil · 56-60, M
@Rusham Yeah, very interesting, but stupid!!! No, just kidding.
Myself11 · 61-69, M
Yes I am I always say be who you are and love who you are
SpiritOfSoul · 31-35, F
@Myself11 good
SpiritOfSoul · 31-35, F
Nice thought!
coolnudist · 70-79, M
Yes, I don't know how to be anyone else. lol
SpiritOfSoul · 31-35, F
@coolnudist great
SpiritOfSoul · 31-35, F
That's how one should be
SW-User
Nope. The real me curses a lot more.
SpiritOfSoul · 31-35, F
@SW-User oh!
SpiritOfSoul · 31-35, F
Youre better off here!
Raythedevil · 56-60, M
@SW-User Oh my!!
Atrevido1 · 61-69, M
Yes. Maybe a bit more extroverted
SpiritOfSoul · 31-35, F
@Atrevido1 nice
SpiritOfSoul · 31-35, F
Many here Would act same way when online
Raythedevil · 56-60, M
@Atrevido1 Exactly, probably true of most of us.
76starships · 46-50, M
Yes, I'm basically the same person here online as I am in real life. I'm polite, curious, and interested in learning more about people.

I'm probably a little more direct and sexual here than I'd ever be in real life, but that's a reflection of the content here.
SpiritOfSoul · 31-35, F
SpiritOfSoul · 31-35, F
Not many stay same
Raythedevil · 56-60, M
@76starships I think I would agree with that last line, I'm maybe just a little more the real me here because of the virtual anonymity and distance from other members here.
Quimliqer · 70-79, M
Yes. I can't pretend worth a damn...
SpiritOfSoul · 31-35, F
@Quimliqer good
SpiritOfSoul · 31-35, F
Best to be your ownself
Bigbrandy · 31-35, F
Yes iam all me online
SpiritOfSoul · 31-35, F
@Bigbrandy great!
SpiritOfSoul · 31-35, F
Not many here can claim the same @Bigbrandy
Raythedevil · 56-60, M
@SpiritOfSoul Actually, I know most can claim it, but that doesn't make it true.
Sometimes yes, sometimes no.
SpiritOfSoul · 31-35, F
@HungJury Fair enough!
SpiritOfSoul · 31-35, F
Honest response
I am real both online and off.
SpiritOfSoul · 31-35, F
@Underconstruction Wonderful!
SpiritOfSoul · 31-35, F
Many cannot
GwydionFrost · 56-60, M
Well, those who've had the pleasure of meeting and talking and knowing me outside of this place will probably confirm the only difference between me in public and me here is that my punchline delivery is much better in person (text without tone is hard to decipher when determining serious vs. snark). ;)
SpiritOfSoul · 31-35, F
@GwydionFrost great!
MURD3RM0NK3Y · 26-30, M
All the time
SpiritOfSoul · 31-35, F
@MURD3RM0NK3Y Great!
SpiritOfSoul · 31-35, F
Not many can say that
MURD3RM0NK3Y · 26-30, M
@SpiritOfSoul I find it pretty easy to do 🙂 I don’t like pretending I’m someone that I’m not.
wintersecret · 41-45, M
i m always me here.
SpiritOfSoul · 31-35, F
SpiritOfSoul · 31-35, F
Not many here would boast this
Artistic0 · 26-30, F
To be honest,not really
SpiritOfSoul · 31-35, F
SpiritOfSoul · 31-35, F
Thanks for the honest response
AbbySvenz · F
I turn off the snark filter when im online
OzDiver · 61-69, M
Yes. I am completely 'me'.
SpiritOfSoul · 31-35, F
@OzDiver Wonderful!
SpiritOfSoul · 31-35, F
Many dont succeed to be when online
Sanderilla · 70-79, F
Mostly not as shy maybe
SpiritOfSoul · 31-35, F
@Sanderilla fair enough
SpiritOfSoul · 31-35, F
@Sanderilla many arent exactly the same when online
chilloutab2 · 41-45, M
Mostly. It's my goal to be real. I'm usually as real as the situation allows.

Actually, we aren't even really real in real life, leave alone virtual life!!
SpiritOfSoul · 31-35, F
Not many here can boast that
chilloutab2 · 41-45, M
Well... to each their own. And I hope I dont come across as if I'm boasting that...it's just a statement of fact.
SpiritOfSoul · 31-35, F
Degbeme · 70-79, M
I certainly am.
SpiritOfSoul · 31-35, F
@Degbeme Great!
SpiritOfSoul · 31-35, F
Not many manage to stat the same when online @Degbeme
GloriaGirl · 26-30, F
I am trying to
SpiritOfSoul · 31-35, F
@GloriaGirl Fine!
SpiritOfSoul · 31-35, F
Try to be what you really are
KoolGirl · 26-30, F
SpiritOfSoul · 31-35, F
@KoolGirl Kool !
SpiritOfSoul · 31-35, F
Not many are !
Raythedevil · 56-60, M
@KoolGirl @SpiritOfSoul Very Kool!!
OneLostSoul · 26-30, F
SpiritOfSoul · 31-35, F
@OneLostSoul Great!
SpiritOfSoul · 31-35, F
Not many can boast that !
Pdad49 · M
SpiritOfSoul · 31-35, F
@Pdad49 great!
SpiritOfSoul · 31-35, F
Not many manage to be the same
lilsnifferman · 31-35, M
For sure, there's no need to act someone else!
In some aspects I'm even more open while online. About these things I'm still brave enough to admit online only... ;)
SpiritOfSoul · 31-35, F
@lilsnifferman Not many here can boast that!
lilsnifferman · 31-35, M
@SpiritOfSoul
I keep my identity in secret, no one knows me in personal, so I can write here more ;)
SpiritOfSoul · 31-35, F
@lilsnifferman yes of course you can
SpiritOfSoul · 31-35, F
SpiritOfSoul · 31-35, F
@4thdimensiondream Thats how you should be here
Butterflykisses24 · 51-55, F
SpiritOfSoul · 31-35, F
@Butterflykisses24 good enough
bargen0wwww · 26-30, M
More real online than in person. In person im more of a sarcastic asshole. With a short temper so i occasionally yell more than i do online. I consider my online self the real me.
SpiritOfSoul · 31-35, F
@bargen0wwww right!
SpiritOfSoul · 31-35, F
Most here would act that way
RainBisou · F
yes but just reserved on what I share. some people don't quite understand this point, people are always wanting to "see" who they are talking to or want details of your life, etc. I am just very private.
SpiritOfSoul · 31-35, F
@RainBisou fair enough
NankerPhelge · 61-69, M
Yes, I am. Except that my screen name isn't my real name, of course. Lol :)
SpiritOfSoul · 31-35, F
@NankerPhelge that was a a general statement.
NankerPhelge · 61-69, M
@SpiritOfSoul I thought the general population of SW came here to look for like-minded people, which is all the more reason for them to be themselves and not try to hide their real-life personalities behind a screen name.
SpiritOfSoul · 31-35, F
@NankerPhelge yes i guess
SpiritOfSoul · 31-35, F
@valhalla good
SpiritOfSoul · 31-35, F
Not many seem to act the same
SW-User
SpiritOfSoul · 31-35, F
@SW-User Lovely
SpiritOfSoul · 31-35, F
Few manage to be
SpiritOfSoul · 31-35, F
@manandwoman Great!
SpiritOfSoul · 31-35, F
Not many are
GentleJoe · 61-69, M
Yes, I am. Although, I may be a bit less likely to express my opinions about some things because I don't want them to become a distraction to what may have been the original subject of a post.
SpiritOfSoul · 31-35, F
@GentleJoe fair enough
SpiritOfSoul · 31-35, F
Good reasoning
vetguy1991 · 51-55, M
SpiritOfSoul · 31-35, F
@vetguy1991 indeed, VG
SamHarris · 31-35, M
I certainly am the real me. I can promise that.
SpiritOfSoul · 31-35, F
SamHarris · 31-35, M
@SpiritOfSoul I just posted a question in the community. If you get a chance, check it out.
SpiritOfSoul · 31-35, F
@SamHarris Right!
Much the same as real life in most ways but a bit more real in others as not having having to wear the mask of who & what people expect me to be.
SpiritOfSoul · 31-35, F

 
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