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I’m going to the movies with the friend who tried to kiss me tonight.

Any other tips on how to avoid it again? I think this may be the night where I come clean about how I’m feeling. I’m wearing dark messy lipstick so he’ll be unattracted.

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KneAuxBody Best Comment

Just kiss him first, on the [b]cheek[/b] outside of the movies with people around, and say, " You're one of my best guy friends! Thanks for coming to the movie with me!"

xRockGlossPrincessx · 26-30, F

@KneAuxBody HOLY! THIS IS GREAT THANKS!!!! ❤️

KneAuxBody

@xRockGlossPrincessx That'll probably work!

BE all friendly and bubbly after... Just Like if he were your buddy Rachel or Stephanie! Just don't mention your new Victoria's Secret bra! 🤣

xRockGlossPrincessx · 26-30, F

@KneAuxBody okay thanks! :)

sighmeupforthat · 46-50, M

this still going on.. you a glutton for punishment..

maybe... go on about how the super sized tampons are too tight though one day you sneezed and it cannoned out of your vaggy.

or, eat lots of crunchy stuff.. and make sure everything you get is in those plasticy fakey aluminum looking baggies... :D

maybe belch or wear too much knock off perfume?

keep checking your make up and make smoochie faces at the mirror compact.

then WINK.

bring a back pack.. with a big furry goofy animal inside which you name snookylumps and tap the bag every so often asking if it wants popcorn?

get up to pee alot.. then as you come back call him by a nickname he will hate and say "what's wrong .....??? don'tchewwuffymuffyme?

i know, bring a white cane! wear sunglasses. (i do that.. of course i suffer from WET AMD... but it drives people nuts wondering why a guy who suffers any form of blindness and WEARS his sunglasses inside the theater is even there knocking his stick around..

WUAHAHAHAHAH!

oh and wriggle around alot going "next time tampax.. i'm going regular size"

xRockGlossPrincessx · 26-30, F

@sighmeupforthat Okay thanks for telling me what I needed to hear.

metaldog

Not going out with them is one way of avoiding it

xRockGlossPrincessx · 26-30, F

@metaldog I have to do this. I won’t let our friendship suffer because all of a sudden he decided he liked me.

metaldog

@xRockGlossPrincessx you're leading him on

xRockGlossPrincessx · 26-30, F

I’m not meaning too. @metaldog

Itsmrsockmonkey · M

If you go with him he'll think it's ok to try it again,maybe more

xRockGlossPrincessx · 26-30, F

You mean he doesn’t value me or our friendship at all?!!@Itsmrsockmonkey

Itsmrsockmonkey · M

@xRockGlossPrincessx how did you stop him from kissing you?

ScarletWitch · 26-30, F

Maybe you should tell them how you feel so you never have to feel uncomfortable around them.

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uncalled4 · 56-60, M

@xRockGlossPrincessx I have a few women friends, and in some cases I cover the "ok, you're attractive, but I am only interested in friends" angle. You don't have to jump on every person to whom you are attracted. (I think)

xRockGlossPrincessx · 26-30, F

@uncalled4 No see, being attracted to and liking someone are to different things. You can bdon’t attracted to someone and like them for that reason or just only think they look good but want nothing to do with them. I mean people see attractive people everyday.

uncalled4 · 56-60, M

@xRockGlossPrincessx I think there can be the attraction/like thing, but you can still be incompatible. I have one woman friend who is drop dead gorgeous, but in a relationship? We would kill each other. We have the trust that we can tell each other how we really feel about something, which is priceless. She has told me things that she has done that I could never put up with, so....friends is fine.

SW-User

You know !? Not everyone thinks that dark messy lipstick are messy !!!

xRockGlossPrincessx · 26-30, F

@SW-User I know but.... apparently men hate kissing girls with lipstick and such. Especially when it’s easily transferable.

SW-User

Don't go to the movies with him. 😂

xRockGlossPrincessx · 26-30, F

Okay can we go someplace else? I mean this guy is like my best friend! @SW-User

SW-User

Ohh gotcha. Well that is tough. Maybe just be straight up with him. Guys are better at handling that than girls. Lol

xRockGlossPrincessx · 26-30, F

@SW-User Okay, Thanks. :)

hotyoungstud23 · 36-40, M

Gud idea. Try to wear a dirty dress and be shabby. If he really loves you, he need not kiss you. Just holding your hand passionately telling his feelings is more than enough trust me. If he only tries to get into your panties without talking anything , that's the point he is not good for you.

xRockGlossPrincessx · 26-30, F

@hotyoungstud23 Man you’re right. If he really likes me a kiss won’t be necessary unless he’s trying to get in my pants.

hotyoungstud23 · 36-40, M

@xRockGlossPrincessx right be away from such ppl

SStarfish ·

Going to the movies with him?

Has it ever occured to you that he's trying to date you???

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SStarfish ·

@xRockGlossPrincessx obviously he wants to be More than friends.

xRockGlossPrincessx · 26-30, F

@SStarfish Dangit. Ugh okay I’ll have to be more blunt!

SStarfish ·

xRedx · M

I think it's better if you just call off the date. I mean, you are trying to avoid that, right?

xRockGlossPrincessx · 26-30, F

@xRedx It’s.... not a date though. :(

xRedx · M

@xRockGlossPrincessx um, isn't that another red flag?

bearinthebigbluehouse · 26-30, M

Tsk, but dark messy lipstick is the best kind. ┬┴┬┴┤ ͜ʖ ͡ °)/

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Madelenie · 26-30, F

@bearinthebigbluehouse Mmm I'll remember to wear those all the time so you will kiss me more ┬┴┬┴┤ ͜ʖ ͡°)t

bearinthebigbluehouse · 26-30, M

@Madelenie No.

Madelenie · 26-30, F

@bearinthebigbluehouseI don't want to kiss you now anyway.

SW-User

take pepper spray with you
or just enjoy the kiss
it could be magical

xRockGlossPrincessx · 26-30, F

No I mean he’s my best friend. I won’t pepper spray him. But a kiss is simply out of the question. @SW-User

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MartinTheFirst · 26-30, M

Just say nah boi

xRockGlossPrincessx · 26-30, F

@MartinTheFirst i think I have to. Thanks. :)

MartinTheFirst · 26-30, M

@xRockGlossPrincessx say after me kids, nah boi

bijouxbroussard · F

[b]Why[/b] are you going to the movies with him ? Two words: date rape.

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KneAuxBody

@bijouxbroussard you really always think like that?

It was a kiss!!!!
She wasn't molested or stripped and humped in the theater!
She evidently is more realistic than whatever you're thinking!

xRockGlossPrincessx · 26-30, F

@bijouxbroussard First I let me body language do the talking, then I told him he was my best friend and that we should stay friends. But I think based off his texts he didn’t get it. He may try again which means I’ll have to be more blunt sadly... :(

KneAuxBody

@xRockGlossPrincessx He's lonely, horny, and needs to understand that friendly and nice, and attractive do not mean love, or sex.

You might have to use*, [i]"You're kinda like a brother"[/i] to diffuse this.
Then see if you can hook him up with a sweet girlfriend on a blind date!

*😖 Cringe!

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