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I’m going to the movies with the friend who tried to kiss me tonight.

Any other tips on how to avoid it again? I think this may be the night where I come clean about how I’m feeling. I’m wearing dark messy lipstick so he’ll be unattracted.

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ScarletWitch · 26-30, F

Maybe you should tell them how you feel so you never have to feel uncomfortable around them.

uncalled4 · 56-60, M

@ScarletWitch Nah, that would be useful, practical advice.

xRockGlossPrincessx · 26-30, F

@ScarletWitch Yea like I said, it may ruin our friendship but I think it’s time.

uncalled4 · 56-60, M

@xRockGlossPrincessx I have a few women friends, and in some cases I cover the "ok, you're attractive, but I am only interested in friends" angle. You don't have to jump on every person to whom you are attracted. (I think)

xRockGlossPrincessx · 26-30, F

@uncalled4 No see, being attracted to and liking someone are to different things. You can bdon’t attracted to someone and like them for that reason or just only think they look good but want nothing to do with them. I mean people see attractive people everyday.

uncalled4 · 56-60, M

@xRockGlossPrincessx I think there can be the attraction/like thing, but you can still be incompatible. I have one woman friend who is drop dead gorgeous, but in a relationship? We would kill each other. We have the trust that we can tell each other how we really feel about something, which is priceless. She has told me things that she has done that I could never put up with, so....friends is fine.