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Gauntlets28 · 26-30, M
It totally wouldn't last. Those things always end up with people getting emotionally involved one way or another.
LindaM · 61-69, F
@PoetryNEmotion no but men my age dont want that or so it appears and i think having your own space is important...
@LindaM All the men I do know want a commitment. Freedom is important too.
LindaM · 61-69, F
@PoetryNEmotion maybe i dont get out enough lol :)

summersong · F
I can but it's really not healthy for me and at this point I really don't think I'd choose it.
Karmalives · 51-55, M
@summersong good on you.
SweetMae · 70-79, F
I could if I wasn't married.
bellybuttonfan17 · 36-40, M
@SweetMae 😂 Love the gumption in your answer ! :D
SW-User
I couldn't handle a relationship like that. I'm too possessive.
LindaM · 61-69, F
@Karmalives i want a boyfriend slash lover not a husband...and nobody married or in a relationship and its like pulling teeth ahahah :)
Karmalives · 51-55, M
@LindaM but with that post you will not receive the honest boyfriend.. ya must understand most males 😎 .. just be you and be honest let it take it's coarse .. Best things happen when we are not looking 😎
LindaM · 61-69, F
@Karmalives ok i posted badly but my intentions come from my heart lol :)
originalGOS · 26-30, F
I've been there before. I, personally, think with my personality, its the best type of relationship. I really enjoyed it. I think there were time I wanted more, and times he wanted more. But overall, it's a good experience. I thinks it's okay for younger people, who don't want multiple sexual partners, but aren't ready to fully commit to one particular person.
LindaM · 61-69, F
@Stark thats not what i want and i dont want a married person either i want someone free to be with me
@LindaM goodness you've seem to misunderstood me some how ? I was referring to what you said you wanted, "a boyfriend lover but I don't want to get married or live with him. " (quoting what you've said)I was pointing out that what you want isn't uncommon and it's easy to find and given your age if you're looking for someone around your age range they might have already been married before, gone through a divorce and now single and want something simple like what you want. Because they've already been married and don't want to get married again.
LindaM · 61-69, F
@Stark yes exactly right...i posted incorrectly lol :)
Strings tend to happen on one side.
Sex for sex sake is often only momentarily satisfying.
Had one. Have an open relationship now. I have had only one partner other in these 3 years. Only for about 6 months total. It can be handled. One can experiment safely. And it often involves getting to know someone before sex. Along with sex comes feelings. At least for me. Men seem to do it more lightly than women I find.
LindaM · 61-69, F
@PoetryNEmotion i never meant having sex with a married person ..i just meant having sex with a single person and being friends minus living together or married..thats what i meant by no strings...
@LindaM Who said a married person? I am not married. Neither are they. I don't have sex with married people. Geez. You can have sex with single people. Strings mean different things. FWBs usually are just hook-ups for sex.
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LindaM · 61-69, F
@Sniper ok please listen to me...i just dont want to get married right now i want a lover a boyfriend a man who loves me we will have great sex and have sleep overs than go to dinner or watch a movie then he will go home and do his thing and i will go home and do my thing ..does this makes sense ..
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LindaM · 61-69, F
@Sniper lol ok
JRVanguard · 26-30, M
Nah, not for me
JupiterDreams · 31-35
Not my thing.
StevenIzzi · 51-55, M
Hmm...Should I plead the 5th?
LindaM · 61-69, F
@SW-User i agree with you...i posted this post wrong..i did not mean to have FWB with a married person...2 single people relationship...
SW-User
@StevenIzzi yes it works for you and your wife to use other people for entertainment
StevenIzzi · 51-55, M
@LindaM Hell, this question was more fun though.....run with it.
iQuit · F
😐 Granny wouldn't approve
and most FWB end up having one person getting it twisted wanting to put it on lockdown if it's good enough
ChampagneOnIce · 51-55, F
Yes and yes, I have.
ChampagneOnIce · 51-55, F
It was fun. We were friends, no romantic entanglements, and the sex and conversation were great. We were fwbs for a year or so.
LindaM · 61-69, F
@ChampagneOnIce i see i would get to emotionally wrapped up...im not that grown up lol
ChampagneOnIce · 51-55, F
I rarely fall in romantic love. I love my friends, but it’s different, and I learned through that experience I can separate sex and love.
SW-User
No, not for me
Waxfoot · 56-60, M
@LindaM what? Lol
LindaM · 61-69, F
@Waxfoot lol mr sexy pants...its just a question im not doing that lol :)
Waxfoot · 56-60, M
😝@LindaM
SW-User
Nope. I would stay alone forever before I would share.
Livingwell · 61-69, M
I've had one of those. Was nice. Eventually we both moved on..
Controller · 61-69, M
Did once before I was married but now have no need 🤗
Randall · 26-30, M
I've tried. It didn't go well.
Karmalives · 51-55, M
@Randall bingo
Karmalives · 51-55, M
Not a good call if you are like me.
SW-User
Yes, and yes.
SW-User
butterfly1013 · 26-30, F
Kinda in one now... but not quite. He's an ex and there are feelings involved, but we're not together. I don't think that counts, but yeah.. It's pretty complicated.
jaymic64 · M
It would definitely have to be with the right person.
LindaM · 61-69, F
@jaymic64 i want a boyfriend who is my lover and best friend with benefits lol..a relationship other than being married or living together...
jaymic64 · M
I don't see anything wrong with that. Why haven't you explored this. @LindaM
MojoJojo · 36-40, M
I would, but I'm married. I see no problem with it, though.
I can and I have
@LindaM it was just sex and hanging out. It's not really recommended for people who get attached really easily or are emotional. What is this question ?
LindaM · 61-69, F
@Stark are you male or female
@LindaM I am a female
Karmalives · 51-55, M
I will post something on this right now
Waxfoot · 56-60, M
Easily done
LindaM · 61-69, F
@Waxfoot i dont think you understand lol
Waxfoot · 56-60, M
@LindaM probably not but I'm in anyway
LindaM · 61-69, F
@Waxfoot do you know what my proposition is lol :)
SW-User
I would love to try it
LindaM · 61-69, F
@SW-User me too but not with a married person and not with a person who didnt care for me...i just dont want to be married at this time or live with anyone...
Justme5969 · 61-69, M
Ohhhhh yesssss!
LindaM · 61-69, F
@Justme5969 read on because you might misunderstood my post because i posted incorrectly...lol
bluemachine · 26-30, M
would love to try
SW-User
No, I wouldn't.
SW-User
No I wouldn't.
SW-User
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LindaM · 61-69, F
@RogueLoner I'm like you , just another oddball ahaha :)

 
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