what about `friends with benefits and no strings attached
could you handle a relationship like that and would you
summersong · F
Karmalives · 51-55, M
@summersong good on you.
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Karmalives · 51-55, M
@LindaM but with that post you will not receive the honest boyfriend.. ya must understand most males 😎 .. just be you and be honest let it take it's coarse .. Best things happen when we are not looking 😎
LindaM · 61-69, F
@Karmalives ok i posted badly but my intentions come from my heart lol :)
originalGOS · 26-30, F
I've been there before. I, personally, think with my personality, its the best type of relationship. I really enjoyed it. I think there were time I wanted more, and times he wanted more. But overall, it's a good experience. I thinks it's okay for younger people, who don't want multiple sexual partners, but aren't ready to fully commit to one particular person.
@LindaM goodness you've seem to misunderstood me some how ? I was referring to what you said you wanted, "a boyfriend lover but I don't want to get married or live with him. " (quoting what you've said)I was pointing out that what you want isn't uncommon and it's easy to find and given your age if you're looking for someone around your age range they might have already been married before, gone through a divorce and now single and want something simple like what you want. Because they've already been married and don't want to get married again.
Gauntlets28 · 26-30, M
LindaM · 61-69, F
@PoetryNEmotion no but men my age dont want that or so it appears and i think having your own space is important...
PoetryNEmotion · F
@LindaM All the men I do know want a commitment. Freedom is important too.
LindaM · 61-69, F
@PoetryNEmotion maybe i dont get out enough lol :)
StevenIzzi · M
Hmm...Should I plead the 5th?
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@StevenIzzi yes it works for you and your wife to use other people for entertainment
StevenIzzi · M
@LindaM Hell, this question was more fun though.....run with it.
JRVanguard · 26-30, M
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LindaM · 61-69, F
@Sniper ok please listen to me...i just dont want to get married right now i want a lover a boyfriend a man who loves me we will have great sex and have sleep overs than go to dinner or watch a movie then he will go home and do his thing and i will go home and do my thing ..does this makes sense ..
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ChampagneOnIce · 51-55, F
ChampagneOnIce · 51-55, F
It was fun. We were friends, no romantic entanglements, and the sex and conversation were great. We were fwbs for a year or so.
LindaM · 61-69, F
@ChampagneOnIce i see i would get to emotionally wrapped up...im not that grown up lol
ChampagneOnIce · 51-55, F
I rarely fall in romantic love. I love my friends, but it’s different, and I learned through that experience I can separate sex and love.
PoetryNEmotion · F
Strings tend to happen on one side.
Sex for sex sake is often only momentarily satisfying.
Had one. Have an open relationship now. I have had only one partner other in these 3 years. Only for about 6 months total. It can be handled. One can experiment safely. And it often involves getting to know someone before sex. Along with sex comes feelings. At least for me. Men seem to do it more lightly than women I find.
Sex for sex sake is often only momentarily satisfying.
Had one. Have an open relationship now. I have had only one partner other in these 3 years. Only for about 6 months total. It can be handled. One can experiment safely. And it often involves getting to know someone before sex. Along with sex comes feelings. At least for me. Men seem to do it more lightly than women I find.
LindaM · 61-69, F
@PoetryNEmotion i never meant having sex with a married person ..i just meant having sex with a single person and being friends minus living together or married..thats what i meant by no strings...
PoetryNEmotion · F
@LindaM Who said a married person? I am not married. Neither are they. I don't have sex with married people. Geez. You can have sex with single people. Strings mean different things. FWBs usually are just hook-ups for sex.
Livingwell · 61-69, M
Karmalives · 51-55, M
@Randall bingo
Controller · 61-69, M
Karmalives · 51-55, M
butterfly1013 · 26-30, F
Kinda in one now... but not quite. He's an ex and there are feelings involved, but we're not together. I don't think that counts, but yeah.. It's pretty complicated.
jaymic64 · M
It would definitely have to be with the right person.
I can and I have
MojoJojo · 36-40, M
I would, but I'm married. I see no problem with it, though.
Justme5969 · 61-69, M
Ohhhhh yesssss!
LindaM · 61-69, F
@Justme5969 read on because you might misunderstood my post because i posted incorrectly...lol
Waxfoot · 56-60, M
Easily done
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I would love to try it
Karmalives · 51-55, M
I will post something on this right now
bluemachine · 31-35, M
would love to try
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No I wouldn't.
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No, I wouldn't.
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Maybe
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