what about `friends with benefits and no strings attached

@StevenIzzi dont say a word lol :) but what is your opinion..

@LindaM I can and I have and as long as emotion is not brought into it, it can work out.

Sadly I had some bring emotion into it. They need to realize that sharing your body is not the same as sharing what my wife and I have which is body, heart, mind, soul.

A FWB should be maybe once a quarter, or at best once a month and the minute they want more and more of your time then it is time to cut them loose.

@StevenIzzi you're an arsehole

what about a relationship that has love in it, they can still have that without being married or living together..thats what i mean

@LindaM Nothing wrong with that.

@SW-User I am willing to bet if you got to know me you would not form that opinion of me.

@StevenIzzi

@SW-User I really am a nice guy, I promise. A bit of a comedic smartass, but a nice guy.

@StevenIzzi it is pretty clear how you are willing to treat other human beings in the pursuit of a selfish, shallow and transient physical pleasure

@SW-User Well I am sorry that you have that judgement of me, I just feel that nobody should have more time with me than my wife and she messaged me daily.

@StevenIzzi this type of post is not for you lol..you are not free to be in this type of relationship...

@LindaM hence my plead the 5th and for the record, I did post this before I understood your definition of the question.

one of most hated words in the english dictionary is `hence`what the heck does that mean ahhahahaha

@StevenIzzi right and that's why you said -it is just sharing a body. And I bet you say that upfront right? I am not interested in you as a person I am purely looking to get my rocks off...

The bottom line is flirtation and charm and making someone feel special is what gets them into bed. Turning around AFTER that and playing the noble husband doesn't cut it

Bottom line is you're using someone - you don't care how you get there - and you blame the emotional fall out on her

@SW-User I do not want to hijack Lind's post, but yes I make it VERY clear that I am in an open marriage and please notice the part where she stated that my wife even approved of her. I am ALWAYS clear that this should be about fun, with no strings attached.

What makes it work with my wife and I is that we do have an open communication.

@SW-User i agree with you...i posted this post wrong..i did not mean to have FWB with a married person...2 single people relationship...

@StevenIzzi yes it works for you and your wife to use other people for entertainment

@LindaM Hell, this question was more fun though.....run with it.