Carrying the conversation I decided to text with a man who lives near me with the potential to...

DViper97 · 51-55, M

It happens a lot especially when trying to chat on here with many people. It’s like pulling teeth to get a good conversation started. Then there is the random question asked. Once answered it’s obvious that they don’t like the answer and instead of saying it poor they’re gone. I guess it’s to be expected if it’s online with strangers. Maybe yours is someone you know since you were going to meet in person.

emmasfriend · 46-50, F

I would say that he is not really interested.
Happy to be a polite neighbour, but not looking for more.

To give one last chance, invite him over for coffee.
If he accepts, you have the opportunity to have real conversation.
If he refuses, (claims to be too busy to come) it is time to look elsewhere.

Bluebirdsonmyshoulder · 46-50, F

To those saying that he doesn’t seem interested, I think he is. He keeps talking to me. He’s just repeating what I say somewhat. it makes me nervous to meet him in person because I don’t want end up doing all the talking because it’s too quiet. I will feel incredibly silly if I feel like I’m just blabber mouthing the whole time.

Livingwell · 61-69, M

I don't think he's interested. If I was interested in someone I would engage in the conversation. I wouldn't waste my time and just move on. You tried.

DunningKruger · 61-69, M

People who ask no questions in return, I've found, are at best self absorbed and at worst narcissistic.

That said, perhaps he's not comfortable communicating through text. Hve you spoken with him over the phone at all?

JamesBugman

I would guess he really isn't interested, but if you offer sex he will be all over that, but then back to indifferent. Maybe over time he will become more attached.

Muthafukajones · 46-50, M

This is actually very common. You might try switching to telephone to see if he improves. It might be that like many people he is a very boring person and has nothing to say or contribute to your life.