Way too many men fetish me for having macromastia

Why post about it then? What sort of attention are you looking for?

The problem is the lack of control that we as posters have about our posts. Theres no filter to stop anyone from seeing whatever we do.

You can't control other people on a public message board like SW

Those fetishists are the worst kind, the kind that lust after something to the extent that they see the people they objectify not as people but only the carrier of their fetish. The pain and difficulty of the condition. doesn't register with them.

It's appallingly selfish. I'm sad you experience that - but those fetishists aren't really people either.

I think there is a line in the middle somewhere. Without a doubt there are those that go beyond what is ok and pursue and project at unhealthy unwanted levels. And you cant minimize how a person feels that feels targeted because only they know how it impacts them. That being said I think some most people are attracted to certain physical traits, big, small, dark skinned, light skinned, green eyes, short hair, big hands, big bums etc. Groups focusing on a topic are going to attract the good and bad of people to them. Doesnt mean that someone who has an interest, curiosity or appreciation is a bad person or just focused on that one thing. Doesnt mean they arent just a complete tool either. I think we can choose who we do and do not communicate with and even though sometimes it might be frustrating, have that power especially on here to ignore, mute, block etc gives you a lot of personal choice.

What do you expect? You’re making it your main identity on here by posting a cartoon of a woman with huge boobs as your profile pic.

Very sad .. the women I know with this condition suffer very uncomfortable lives ..often requiring surgery. Just goes to show how insensitive some men can be. 🤷

probably way worse in actual public than online, I'm sorry you go through that, I have also.

Just be thankful it's not Gigantomastia. 😳

I have to pay extra for mammograms!

Sorry, but I’m also guilty. Most of us are hardwired to instinctually seek out a mate is most suited for reproduction. It’s natures way I guess. I try not to fight it.

I’m a guy but this is an honest question. Isn’t that uncomfortable? Doesn’t it play hell with your back? Can you get reduction surgery? I know I must sound ignorant but I’m sorry for what must be a real problem.

I hear ya hun!!!

Agreed.

My guess is that you have not met the right gentleman yet. Hang in there and keep your head up.

Those are boys. Real men do not behave in such a manner.

That stinks, I'm sorry you are going through that

All that aside of all the nonsensical complaining....why put up a pic that gives the impression in the first place, just like all the other macromastia women here? I think its all bullshit! No one who hates something brings attention in such ways to the thing that they hate, then play that "chat site victim role"!!!!

Your condition seems as though it would be a burden & problem, not a blessing.

Sorry guys are making your burden worse, but I've seen them here...

Unfortunately, you are here right when there is a high of, e.g., crazily-large anime characters, etc.

I’m sorry people turn my sex abuse into a fetish I understand how you feel ❤️❤️

I wouldn’t consider it any more of a fetish than women who prefer tall men .

I don't. I know women that had reductions and feel much better.

Is that the breast growth disorder thing? They don’t stop growing?

It probably seems like a good idea at the time.

Not very respectful are they

yeah I can understand that.

Any update?

Respect you

Not me! 🤤

You're incredible, though.

It’s not fair or right.

It's not a 'fetish' to appreciate something ... using that kind of logic, is appreciating your BEAUTY a 'fetish' ???

I think not ...

... i would suggest that if you found a guy attractive and he had a 'fetish' for Macromastia, you certainly wouldn't be "tired of it"

🤔 just an observation, not a critiscism

I look at the whole package, but i appreciate Big Ones, that isn't a fetish

Nice new pic, not you, but still a nice new pic

It's not a 'fetish' it's an appreciation 🤷🏼‍♂️🤷🏼‍♂️🤷🏼‍♂️

Is it easing any, the tiredness 🤭🤭🤭