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SizEmUp · 26-30, M
I think there is a line in the middle somewhere. Without a doubt there are those that go beyond what is ok and pursue and project at unhealthy unwanted levels. And you cant minimize how a person feels that feels targeted because only they know how it impacts them. That being said I think some most people are attracted to certain physical traits, big, small, dark skinned, light skinned, green eyes, short hair, big hands, big bums etc. Groups focusing on a topic are going to attract the good and bad of people to them. Doesnt mean that someone who has an interest, curiosity or appreciation is a bad person or just focused on that one thing. Doesnt mean they arent just a complete tool either. I think we can choose who we do and do not communicate with and even though sometimes it might be frustrating, have that power especially on here to ignore, mute, block etc gives you a lot of personal choice.