Can people do nice things without being jerks?

I have one buddy who has been a lot of help, but he’s also really bossy and grumpy. He helped yesterday and I appreciate it but I also get tired of people acting like I’m dumb. And I keep telling him I’m gonna sell the house but he talks like we’re gonna be here forever. Like he isn’t hearing me and keeps telling me what to do. I kinda don’t want to be friends with him. He’s so controlling but like dude you have no power over me.

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SledgeHammer · 46-50, M

The build up of you leaving California for the inheritance of a house that is in need of some work to put on the market has me intrigued. Have you gotten any pictures of the place.

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SledgeHammer · 46-50, M

@RebelFox um.....?
May I ?

I have always loved the reconstruction an owner invests on the property

SledgeHammer · 46-50, M

Or not--

RebelFox · 36-40, F

@SledgeHammer not posting it publicly but I can message you some pics

IamBack · 31-35, M

The title doesn’t make a whole lotta sense, you’re either nice or a jerk, can’t mix the two I guess 🤷🏻‍♂️

So that dude is jerky from the beginning I’d say

RebelFox · 36-40, F

@IamBack but he does nice things, he just acts like a bossy jerk

IamBack · 31-35, M

@RebelFox idk maybe the dude is just protective idk

WintaTheAngle · 41-45, M

Some people can. But the evidence suggests mostly not. And it’s getting worse as time goes by.

SW-User

Whenever I feel like someone is trying to control me I detach

RebelFox · 36-40, F

@SW-User I gotta learn to do that. I always wanna listen to be “polite” but then it gets in my head from my family constantly manipulating me. The “you should” statements make me sweat with anger.

Jamesy · 41-45, M

Can you not ask for offers and take the best one then become an English Yorkshire lass

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