There is a waitress whose face was badly damaged by a dog when she was little. She had 300 stitches and went through a lot.she is 29 a pretty should I say anything at all?
@ImpeccablyImperfect No, please DON'T do this. She's probably only too painfully aware of what she looks like and may think thst you're being disingenuous, or maybe condensing, or even mistake it as sarcasm. Just treat her as a normal person and don't assume anything.
If I were to do so, I'd try to catch her so I could have a private conversation and just be honest
"Hi, <name>. Is it ok if I tell you something? I don't want to dwell on the past, but I want you to know that I honestly find you to be a very pretty woman. [smile] Thanks for letting me share that with the only other person who needs to know."