Is it just me or when someone posts to social media asking for advice on a relationship situation, it's like 95% they actually caused the problem but

I just don't understand why Brad ghosted me. I only cheated on him 3 times. There is only one explanation for this... Brad is a narcissist.

A big oof

Well I do imagine this to be true of certain people who can't seem to have a relationship or hold one down, they say they want that, but, clearly they are single forever

Not all of them. Most are asking for a friend 😊