Why do guys always ask blunt questions in DMs? Its so off putting🤷‍♀️

Answer it yourself as well, makes it well more friendly and less off putting. And give a lead in for further questions.

Its not that hard guys🤷‍♀️.

Eg
"Im just sitting in my car chilling out, been a busy day kind of, hows your day going?"

Not

"HRU?"