Have you ever tried a drastic change, and it wasnt the right choice?

Guys, van life single mom style isnt gonna work. We're going to finish out our trip out west and then find a place to settle. I may resume these adventures later in life once my son is doing his own thing, but for now, I admit, I cant do this.

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Spracer

You tried and know you love the lifestyle and now you know you need to put it on hold. I think it is the right choice for you when your son is older. You would always wonder what if, if you didnt try.

RebelFox · 36-40, F

@Spracer Exactly. We're still having fun and still planning to see way more of the country, but it just cant be long term right now.

Spracer

@RebelFox Finish up this trip and see everything you want to see and do and then settle down. By the time you are ready to hit the road, I might be out there too. 😁

RebelFox · 36-40, F

@Spracer it's definitely a bummer because i could live this way forever, but its not fair if my son isnt safe or I'm not able to provide enough. He's most important. And heck yeah we aint stoppin now! Lots more to see. And I'm also glad to just be far away from "home".

Its gonna be much more simple with one or two adults. Im excited for you hun because this shit has helped us grow a great deal.

Spracer

@RebelFox I know, he has to come first and being a great mom you are doing what you have to for him. You are young and have plenty of time for you own adventures. I know, I cant wait to get out there and experience what you have.