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Do you still make an effort with people?

Or have you given up? 🤷🏻‍♂️
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Queendragonfly · 31-35, F
If I think someone is worth it I do.
Queendragonfly · 31-35, F
@IamBack People grow apart / value family and partner over friendship or get other friends.
IamBack · 31-35, M
@Queendragonfly well, I’m not sure if it’s common but it’s difficult to make friends as an adult eh?
Queendragonfly · 31-35, F
@IamBack Yeah it can be.
Deceased · M
I've hit the point in my life where I have no need to impress others. They have to impress me.
IamBack · 31-35, M
@Deceased is it working?
Deceased · M
@IamBack I'm a lot less exhausted and fucked up about my own self worth.
SW-User
I still do, especially if they're making an effort with me. But I don't try and impress people who aren't interested and aren't worth it. It's not always to tell who the right people are, but I'm getting better at it.
IamBack · 31-35, M
@SW-User that’s the way to go bro 👍🏻 glad you’re still trying! 👍🏻
I stopped trying because I was going about it wrong. So until I figure out how to try properly, I’m gonna leave people alone and not bother anyone.
IamBack · 31-35, M
@Colonelmustardseed it sucks, I hope you figure it out soon 👍🏻
@IamBack Thank you.
JustNik · 51-55, F
More than I used to actually, but it’s hard to believe it’s a welcome effort so hard to maintain it.
IamBack · 31-35, M
@JustNik ikr? I’m sometimes tired of being the one reaching out, and when I do the other person would be like “oh I missed you too” well then friggin’ reach out lol

Idk I’m starting to do it less tbh, don’t want to be taken for granted 🤷🏻‍♂️
JustNik · 51-55, F
@IamBack LOL I will say, when someone reaches out to me and I say I’ve missed you too, I mean it. I know maybe some people will say that and not mean it, but I think it’s good to remember we’re not the only ones who might find it difficult to reach out or might be overwhelmed with life in general sometimes. We’re all just doing the best we can.
IamBack · 31-35, M
@JustNik well said! 👍🏻
illw84u · 36-40, F
I have no choice, but still need to make effort
illw84u · 36-40, F
@IamBack its tiring to be honest
IamBack · 31-35, M
@illw84u it so is :( it’s the reason why I asked the question to be honest 🤷🏻‍♂️

Feel free to reach out if you’d like to talk about anything :)
illw84u · 36-40, F
@IamBack thank you
Nah I gave up. Now I’m focusing on myself
IamBack · 31-35, M
@DisarrayedNightshade I understand :( it’s always good to prioritise yourself 👍🏻
@IamBack agreed 💯
SW-User
I'll still try but give up must faster than my younger days.
IamBack · 31-35, M
@SW-User completely relatable
Lilymoon · F
I rarely make the effort lately. I just can't be bothered
IamBack · 31-35, M
@Lilymoon same here 👋🏻
Perhaps I've given up on myself, which is even sadder.
Thevy29 · 41-45, M
Flirting with that decision.
IamBack · 31-35, M
@Thevy29 let me know how it turns out for you bro
SW-User
I do and will continue to do
IamBack · 31-35, M
@SW-User good on you for not giving up!
Busybee333 · 31-35, F
I do, every day; but some days... even my peaceful soul hits the fan xD
IamBack · 31-35, M
@Busybee333 that’s a new idiom we should start using lol
SW-User
I feel like some people are there to screw me over. I don’t make any effort to those people once I realize that. If the person is someone I know I can get along with well, I put effort in them.
IamBack · 31-35, M
@SW-User that’s the way to go actually

 
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