Queendragonfly · 31-35, F
If I think someone is worth it I do.
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Queendragonfly · 31-35, F
@IamBack People grow apart / value family and partner over friendship or get other friends.
IamBack · 31-35, M
@Queendragonfly well, I’m not sure if it’s common but it’s difficult to make friends as an adult eh?
Queendragonfly · 31-35, F
@IamBack Yeah it can be.
Deceased · M
I've hit the point in my life where I have no need to impress others. They have to impress me.

SW-User
I still do, especially if they're making an effort with me. But I don't try and impress people who aren't interested and aren't worth it. It's not always to tell who the right people are, but I'm getting better at it.
IamBack · 31-35, M
@SW-User that’s the way to go bro 👍🏻 glad you’re still trying! 👍🏻
Colonelmustardseed · 36-40
I stopped trying because I was going about it wrong. So until I figure out how to try properly, I’m gonna leave people alone and not bother anyone.
IamBack · 31-35, M
@Colonelmustardseed it sucks, I hope you figure it out soon 👍🏻
Colonelmustardseed · 36-40
@IamBack Thank you.
JustNik · 51-55, F
More than I used to actually, but it’s hard to believe it’s a welcome effort so hard to maintain it.
JustNik · 51-55, F
@IamBack LOL I will say, when someone reaches out to me and I say I’ve missed you too, I mean it. I know maybe some people will say that and not mean it, but I think it’s good to remember we’re not the only ones who might find it difficult to reach out or might be overwhelmed with life in general sometimes. We’re all just doing the best we can.
illw84u · 36-40, F
I have no choice, but still need to make effort
DisarrayedNightshade · 36-40
Nah I gave up. Now I’m focusing on myself
IamBack · 31-35, M
@DisarrayedNightshade I understand :( it’s always good to prioritise yourself 👍🏻
DisarrayedNightshade · 36-40
@IamBack agreed 💯

SW-User
I'll still try but give up must faster than my younger days.
IamBack · 31-35, M
@SW-User completely relatable
Lilymoon · F
I rarely make the effort lately. I just can't be bothered
Perhaps I've given up on myself, which is even sadder.
Thevy29 · 41-45, M
Flirting with that decision.

SW-User
I do and will continue to do
IamBack · 31-35, M
@SW-User good on you for not giving up!
Busybee333 · 31-35, F
I do, every day; but some days... even my peaceful soul hits the fan xD
IamBack · 31-35, M
@Busybee333 that’s a new idiom we should start using lol

SW-User
I feel like some people are there to screw me over. I don’t make any effort to those people once I realize that. If the person is someone I know I can get along with well, I put effort in them.
IamBack · 31-35, M
@SW-User that’s the way to go actually