Do you still make an effort with people?

@Queendragonfly please hold on to that!

@IamBack All people in my life are worth it. Those who weren't were kicked out.

@Queendragonfly well I completely understand where you come from, that’s why I have only selected few people, so it gets lonely and I try to get to know new people but 🤷🏻‍♂️

@IamBack However it depends what you mean with efforts cause the agreement with me and my peeps is we can cancel /say no and prioritize self care and no one will be upset or judge.

@Queendragonfly that’s what adults do, and I mean by effort is your taking all the attempts to communicate and check on that person and they ALWAYS respond but they don’t bother to ever initiate a conversation or a text or anything you know? 🤷🏻‍♂️

@IamBack So stop checking on them.

@Queendragonfly that’s what I do, just wondering about why would people do that, that’s all 🤷🏻‍♂️

@IamBack Aha. Some don't like initiating. Some are happy the way it is when the other person took the initiative role. Some are just answering to be polite. But they don't really treasure you.

@Queendragonfly unfortunately that’s what I’ve come to understand 🤷🏻‍♂️

And it seems to be increasing you know, like people don’t seem to be valuing friendships as much as they used to 🤷🏻‍♂️

@IamBack People grow apart / value family and partner over friendship or get other friends.

@Queendragonfly well, I’m not sure if it’s common but it’s difficult to make friends as an adult eh?

@IamBack Yeah it can be.