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littlepuppywantanewlife · 31-35, M
Lol you have opportunities but you are lazy and ignore those opportunities
sahi81 · 22-25, F
@littlepuppywantanewlife I don't feel safe to go out ....
littlepuppywantanewlife · 31-35, M
@sahi81 why not dear?
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Fishy · 36-40, F
@sahi81 I'm from Australia,
But if you're nervous about socialising, have you tried just going to public areas and hanging out while doing your own thing?
Places like cafes, libraries etc?
If you become a regular to a particular library or cafe, you can observe other regulars from a distance, and gradually and subtly learn about them, their personality etc.
It helps too if you go with female friends if you can, because safety in numbers
Also, you might be more likely to attract a quiet type because if they become familiar with your presence from a distance, they may finally work up the courage to talk to you because they feel familiar.
It's not just about meeting people, it's about observing from a distance, seeing them in their natural habitat type of thing
But if you're nervous about socialising, have you tried just going to public areas and hanging out while doing your own thing?
Places like cafes, libraries etc?
If you become a regular to a particular library or cafe, you can observe other regulars from a distance, and gradually and subtly learn about them, their personality etc.
It helps too if you go with female friends if you can, because safety in numbers
Also, you might be more likely to attract a quiet type because if they become familiar with your presence from a distance, they may finally work up the courage to talk to you because they feel familiar.
It's not just about meeting people, it's about observing from a distance, seeing them in their natural habitat type of thing