Do you think it is better not to share your negative experiences about other members in public threads?

When is it fine and when it is bad thing?

This includes appreciation threads or those meant as positive.

I am not asking if it is against the TOS.

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Notladylike

Shout outs are nice in theory but tend to favour members who have a greater influence on the site which is kind of toxic. I’ve named and shamed because of the disparity over how some people try to present themselves versus what they can be like in private message. And how will you ever know if your a user like me who isn’t active enough to join all the dots. Someone send me cheat sheets

Miram · 31-35, F

@Notladylike I don't think you always need to know because everyone deserves to be loved

Not talking about pedos and the like.

Just the regular arguments and differences.

Notladylike

@Miram I was thinking more in the context of the extreme cases.
But otherwise yes I agree with you everyone deserves a chance of connection