I was really good friends with a girl on here

We chatted for a long time and really helped each other I think. One day she read some of my older posts and she decided that she didn’t like me.
I miss her loads, but it’s important that I leave the posts up that make me look not so good as I want to be honest. I miss her though.

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Fishy · 36-40, F

Kiddo, you’ve come such a long way and many of us here are proud of you.

It takes courage and honesty to be upfront about your mistakes and a lot of people value that.

However, and I hope I’m not out of line by saying this, but I’ve noticed you have 2 old stories pinned on your profile.
If someone didn’t know much about you and that was the first thing they seen, they might not realise that you’ve grown and changed a lot since making those original posts.

My suggestion, but would be to pin a new post about how you’ve changed and you’re not like that any more.
And if you really want others to see the old posts because you want to be upfront, then link them in the new post.

All in all, don’t beat yourself up.
You’ve come a lot further than a lot of people

Strongtea · 22-25, M

Hey, thankyou so much for that. I suppose I have kept the old posts pinned as I really want to be honest about what I’ve done/who I was. They’re things that I absolutely hate about me but I want friends on here to know about. I totally get what you’re saying tho and I’ll have a think about how I can be a bit more ‘how I am now’. @Fishy