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I'm still baffled as to why? I'm thinking of a few reasons on our last drive home

1. I called him a boyfriend in third person context (I didn't say he WAS my boyfriend, but that I told an acquaintance that I have a boyfriend to let them know I'm not available, which insinuated to him that I'm calling him my boyfriend I suppose) and maybe he wasn't ready for that so he distanced himself from me.

2. He wasn't available to take me to the other town the morning of my ceremony. My friend offered that I come along with her and her friend (who's a guy). And when I later told him, he had asked me who that guy is. I told him he's a coworker, and my friend was going with him so she offered that I join them, so I did. Maybe he didn't like that?

3. He just realised he doesn't like me. I'm not his type.
turningthekeys
31-35, F
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Boeing · 36-40
That one doesn't deserve you... I am sorry -.-
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OlderSometimesWiser · F
4. He’s not the one and doesn’t deserve you. So you’re gonna let go of having to know why, move on and aim to be in a relationship that doesn’t involve constant overthinking and having to piece together a puzzle or solve a mystery. The right relationship may take some work, but the pieces fall into place without exhausting yourself with pointless mental gymnastics.
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Mindfulness
He sounds pretty immature.
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turningthekeys · 31-35, F
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Magicianzini · M
Is this about the heathen again or another man. If it's the heathen again, why? It was just a mismatch with that one - and you were very lucky he let you know who he was this early on.

If another already? Slow down haha. Take some break in between attempts.

It's probably just about the heathen again though. In that case, maybe you're not ready to try with anyone at all yet if you fixate this heavily still.

Move on.
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turningthekeys · 31-35, F
@Magicianzini thanks for making me chuckle.

True. The garbage truck will be here on Monday to pick him up. I'll make sure he's trashed.
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