I think I'm putting it here hoping you can change my mind I might marry a guy Why? It's my...

🙁I've seen this happen one too many times and it breaks my heart.

Even if you find yourself cornered and with no choice, please don't bury what you'll come to feel is your former self, keep her alive in the little choices you make for yourself without anyone knowing. Nobody can take that away from you

SUPERVlXEN · F

I wish better for you, I wish you get what always wanted.

Your parents can’t live your life but I also don’t know your circumstances. I’d just hope you have a life you can see yourself enjoy!

SilverF0x · 46-50, M

Blind dates can be fun. Blind marriages? Don’t think that would go well.

Don’t do it to make parents happy. They can set you up. Go on dates see how things go.

There may be cultural differences but I say don’t surrender.

Best wishes

Roundandroundwego · 61-69

Is that how people married, in your town? I'd do it, but only if that's how everyone else is doing it. Otherwise it'd be frought with troubling details.