Do you have that friend of family member whenever they call you feel drained?

Like they list all the negative things of the week or day and talk at you?. Ive had to cut people off for it, it's like energy vampirism and I get people wanna vent but you remember how people make you feel, not necessarily what they say.

Calling about genuine problems or feelings is encouraged but when it's a list of nit picks and "isn't this awful" it's a bummer and it's annoying 🤷