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Should I just move on and stop the friendship and don't look back?

I'm feeling left out in my friend group. What should I do? Suddenly after they left me and went with others,(to attend another bday celebration) during a night out in which I wasn't invited in. I felt so isolated as they were hinting for me to go, by saying " Liz is waiting for us, there." Because I heard it, repeatedly, I decided just to go home at 9pm.. Feeling hurt and helpless. Confronted the main people who suddenly isolated me, after a week or so. I thought by having a serious conversation with these people, we would solve the issue. Yes, I got carried away, and became emotional, venting what I was feeling (I even cried, because of anger) , my other friend "kinda" said sorry, but my other friend, didn't, and justified what they did to me. And despite of what they did to me, apparently I'm the evil one, because according to "them", they were hurt because I told them what I felt during the night out. Instead of accepting the fact that they hurt me, by ditching me in the middle of our "friend group" night out, they justified what they did and played "the victims" and they even want me to apologize and reach out to them. Should I just move on and stop the friendship and don't look back?
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Sounds like you are changing and possibly they feel the shift and have a hard time accepting your growth. Maybe pull back and start learning more about yourself. I'm going through a similar thing and it hurts. Maybe you're being protected even though it might not feel like it. I've been battling this for a year or so now. But recently I've been meeting new people who align with my values. Try to let it go and find what aligns with your spirit.
Bittersweet84 · 36-40, F
@PromiseProtectionProvision I think you're right. Maybe I should not do 100% for a friend, next time.😭
@Bittersweet84 I went through this with my husband's sister and it hurt, but I decided to let go and forge on. Be resilient. Persevere. Try to become the best you that you can be. Embrace the solitude for a little while and spend time realigning with what is true to you.
Bittersweet84 · 36-40, F
@PromiseProtectionProvision Thank you. This comment is very helpful and validated.💙
@Bittersweet84 You're welcome 💛