The loss of companionship

Life is lonely. I need to do more things to keep myself busy. I need to stay busy because I'm alone truly alone. My one friend is far and soon they will be married which will make them even further from me. I got a few more people but the truth is they're always with their girlfriends or working.

I run a lot I practice karate too I'm thinking of taking up another martial art and taking up rock climbing but no matter what I do I am alone. I'm a old man 39 soon to be 40 it's too late for me to be in love or start a family.

I wish instead I could have a really close guy friend I could do things with but most men are married and most men are slaves to their wives.

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Kaetana · 61-69, F

It’s very natural for a man in his 30’s to have a best friend in his wife, it’s why most of your friends are married,
I’m quite sure why you believe you’re too old for the same.
I’m much older than you and from what I’ve seen the 30 something bachelors of my younger years are living sad lives which began to quite suddenly go down hill from 50ish.

Pls don’t make that mistake, don’t throw the towel in start a new hobby where you’ll likely mean single women as well ? Cooking classes are popular.
Get out there and enjoy new companionship
Church functions are also welcoming .
Find out what’s happening locally via your neighbourhood app. Have fun , God bless take care