WAS IT MY FAULT?

I don't really have someone to talk to bout this and I found this site so yeahhh

So I have this very close friend of mine, like super close, same community, same school, same life. Days ago, we were together at a girl's night out with our gang then her ultimate crush showed up, mind you guys, she's very head over heels with this guy. That was actually my first time meeting the guy and boom I've just known that this guy is into me. He approached me asking things about me and as crazy as I am, I entertained him. We danced together, but WITH OUR FRIENDS and my mind was just on my friend the whole time, thinking about how she feels. I know my friend don't like what is happening that moment that when I approached her she just shooed me away. Till the night ended and a day has passed, she never talked to me again. I declined my friends invite to parties and such knowing that she don't want me around her. I've been literally alone for the past days and I don't know what to do anymore. Am I at fault? But I'm not even into her guy. Arghhhhh! So frustrating!

SW-User

You are not at fault, you're all young, naive and silly so these things are going to happen. Heck some adults act this way as well. So relax, you are not at fault but your friend is hurting because she feels rejected by her crush and you are the target of her ire because her crush clearly likes you.

That said it's never a good idea to coddle peoples insecurities so if you are going to attempt to salvage your friendship, you are going to have to be frank and stern (not mean) with her. It's not your fault that the boy is attracted to you.