Am I overthinking?..
Hello (◜‿◝)
I need help, I overthink things too much sometimes. I have trust issues because of things that happened in the past involving relationships.
So, my partner and I are almost a year together.
We always text each other, everyday. Since we don't see each other often because of some issues not being able to visit each other at the moment.
Today, we texted, at like 10pm he told me he's going to sleep because he's really tired. I answered around 10: 38pm. Told him goodnight and other things. He usually doesn't open my message till morning. I sleep really late, so I miss him and read old convos we had. His work hours tired him out, so we don't talk much during the weekday. Which sucks, but I understand.
I was texting my cousin on Snapchat, so when I opened the app and was about to click my cousin's message, I saw
that he opened my chat. It was around 11pm.
He didn't reply back, he left it as just opened.
I feel like he didn't wanted to talk to me anymore. Like if he needed an excuse. I'm probably overthinking it, but I can't deny that it hurt me. If you don't want to talk to me, then tell me.
I have already had conversations with him about our relationship, because I want this to work for us. But I'm just so tired, I need to be the one to bring things up. Things that needs work on. I don't know if we should take a break. My feelings are confused.
Am I overthinking this, should I talk to him about taking a break? (╥﹏╥)
I need help, I overthink things too much sometimes. I have trust issues because of things that happened in the past involving relationships.
So, my partner and I are almost a year together.
We always text each other, everyday. Since we don't see each other often because of some issues not being able to visit each other at the moment.
Today, we texted, at like 10pm he told me he's going to sleep because he's really tired. I answered around 10: 38pm. Told him goodnight and other things. He usually doesn't open my message till morning. I sleep really late, so I miss him and read old convos we had. His work hours tired him out, so we don't talk much during the weekday. Which sucks, but I understand.
I was texting my cousin on Snapchat, so when I opened the app and was about to click my cousin's message, I saw
that he opened my chat. It was around 11pm.
He didn't reply back, he left it as just opened.
I feel like he didn't wanted to talk to me anymore. Like if he needed an excuse. I'm probably overthinking it, but I can't deny that it hurt me. If you don't want to talk to me, then tell me.
I have already had conversations with him about our relationship, because I want this to work for us. But I'm just so tired, I need to be the one to bring things up. Things that needs work on. I don't know if we should take a break. My feelings are confused.
Am I overthinking this, should I talk to him about taking a break? (╥﹏╥)
