Tips for making friends as an adult?

So I recently moved states to a new city and it's amazing but boy is it a bit lonely. Making friends as an adult is HARD. Anyone have any tips?

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iamBen · M

The older you get the harder it gets. Please do get out there, find some meetup groups who share your interests, or something. Connect before it becomes next to impossible.

Casheyane · F

@iamBen Did you reach that point? That it feels impossible, I mean? Did it change?

iamBen · M

@Casheyane yes, I have gotten to a point that it feels nearly impossible to make new friends. For what it is worth, I'm not particularly socially awkward. I have some charm and wit at my disposal. I'm also not standoffish. But, it seems that there comes a time when most people aren't interested in adding to their social circle. Or maybe there's other reasons. I'm not certain.