Do the people you find interesting, find you interesting?

I feel the people I could actually open up with never want anything to do with me 😆 They’ll even sometimes tell me to hit them up but then they never respond.

Yet I can attract a user in a millisecond.

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WhateverWorks · 36-40

(Only speaking for my own situation) Sometimes it’s just that people get busy with their lives: work, family, a couple friends they already have a hard time making space for.

Then there’s this other thing where the older people get the less they feel like taking a chance on adding someone new into their life who might be cool, but also might bring with them a bunch of issues/drama.
I’m kinda in the middle with that. When I was working really hard to get myself/life together people would extend friendship to me, but I’d sense they had stuff going on that I didn’t want to deal with. Meanwhile, people who I’d like to become friends with could sense I had stuff going on they didn’t want to deal with 🤷🏻‍♀️😅

AlchemyFox · 36-40, F

@WhateverWorks You’re right. I get it and I accept that.