GJOFJ3 · 61-69, M
I disagree. After 43 years of marriage I still cherish the fact that the first sex for both of us was on our wedding night
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@GJOFJ3 that’s lovely but rare nowadays
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Adogslife · 61-69, M
The biggest mistake is marrying someone with no real appetite for sex. Marriage without a healthy sex life simply isn’t worth it.
calicuz · 56-60, M
Disagree, sex is just a perk to marriage. A real marriage is about putting in the effort to make it work.
AbbeyRhode · F
True, some men exaggerate to excess. Nice to know what we're really getting. 😉
Nimbus · M
@AbbeyRhode 👍
exexec · 70-79, C
I can't say for sure. I didn't have sex until our wedding night, and she had lots of sex in college. It has worked for us for over 40 years. I was happy she knew what she was doing on our wedding night.
smiler2012 · 61-69
{@nimbus] 😆 false in my parents case nimby i was born five months after my parents married
graphite · 61-69, M
@smiler2012 Maybe they used some of the new technologies to speed up the birthing process?

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Agreed, you wouldn’t buy a car without test driving it first.
tindrummer · M
almost always I'd say
Nimbus · M
@tindrummer 👍
False it's thinking they will change just because you are married
justanothername · 51-55, M
True. There’s nothing wrong with having sex with the woman or man that you are going to marry before you actually marry them.
Some people are incredibly traditional in their views if they that that statement is wrong.
Some people are incredibly traditional in their views if they that that statement is wrong.
graphite · 61-69, M
False
tindrummer · M
41 yrs for us - both experienced: me more so
Jenny1234 · 56-60, F
True and I think you need to have sec with a few people before marriage otherwise you get married and don’t know what it’s like to be with others
shuhak · M
False!