I know talking about abuse is looked down on here. But why won’t he choke me? 😩

Maybe choking someone while their kid is in another room sleeping isn’t a turn on.

Just thinking out loud.

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He won't choke u bc he is sensible.

have you talked about it with him? he might not know you're into it. green flag he doesnt choke without conversation first

if you have and he's not still not doing it then your kinks probably dont line up ): i couldn't choke someone even if they asked me to

seek help

Interesting question for this particular forum.

I believe in having fun, perhaps pushing the envelop, but I’m not choking anyone. The risk is just too high.

It’d be a turn off for me. Maybe he feels similarly.

Ever concider he may not hav what it takes to gag or choke ya ...? 😈 bet me does lol

Maybe because of this awoke time in our lives he is afraid of being held to task if you ever get pissed at him and try to paint him as abusive even if it was your idea

Have you tried telling him? Us dudes are dense. You give us guys WAY more credit than we deserve.

Have you even talked to him about it? Show him what you want, just be careful.

You only have to ask

Thanks for BC Smiley

have you asked him?

I did it by accident once during sex, and didn't grasp why she had the reaction she did. It isn't really something natural to most men. You sorta gotta ask for it, or hope he randomly does it by accident like I did.

It's not abuse if you ask for it, and if you have a safe signal and he obeys it.
Assuming, of course, that you want to live.

Hickeys and choking are precursors to finishing together Oops forgot to pull out again lmao

He is scared to. It is not something he is comfortable with. You need to let him know what you enjoy.

Honey he's got some stress on. He choke you its over.

How can he if he's handcuffed to the Bed ?

You're off to a good start 🙄

Come here baby

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