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A man has been cold and silent toward me. Could men leave your opinions?

I have been disappointed by someone that I like. I fancy him but he has been cold and silent for most of the time.

I went to the bar last night where he played as a karaoke DJ. His face was so surprised when he saw me come into the bar. I disappeared from that bar for 4 weeks and he had never texted or kept in contact.

He asked me in the bar twice ,”Will you stay permanently in Scotland?

I went there to give him my late husband new clothes with tags. This was the second time that I gave him new clothes with the tags. He didn't want to receive a gift from me without paying so I accepted £10 from him.

I noticed he is quite friendly with a young girl who is in her 20s. She is a regular customer in that bar. I thought the girl was his niece but I heard she is talking on his ear,” Can you put the “Fuck You” song for me? He was laughing so hard. I don't think a niece will talk like that to an uncle.

He left me sit alone in the bar while he entertained the younger girl so I left early after I sang 2 songs

He often texted me in the early morning at 1.45am or 3am. I guess he was drunk. I replied to him at 4 or 5 am when I woke up and he replied back to me. He noticed that I left the bar so soon. His face was showing surprise at my behaviour. He texted," Why do you leave so soon?"
He often said,” He is not a creep.

He asked me to go out but he could not provide his time for me. This wasn't the first time he had done it. He texted me last month to bring me to his new house but he has never arranged it.

In my opinion, he is an unreliable man. He doesn't stick to his words.
I have blocked him from WhatsApp. I guess he is chasing the younger girl. I wish the best for him. Hopefully, he is happy with his choice.

Can men in Similar World give their opinions?

Why does he behave like that?


I believe my man will come to me next year.
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PatientlyWaiting25 · 46-50, F
He's probably a player and likes your attention, he would probably want to use you for sex but he found out you are complicated so he has kind of backed off and has stopped pushing his game. He won't make you feel good xx
Arrow17 · F
@PatientlyWaiting25 Thank you. I am really appreciate this.

I guess a 50 year old man won't have erection as 35 year old man. I prefer go with someone who is 13 years younger than me for sex's.
GoFish ·
who knows i guess you are right he is unreliable and maybe interested in the other girl who knows don't give him anymore free stuff
GoFish ·
@Arrow17 welcome. sorry he disappointed you
Arrow17 · F
@GoFish it's alright. He hasn't had my heart yet. I am still in love with my late husband.
GoFish ·

 
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