tips for getting bestie out of a funk?

My best friend struggles with unmedicated bipolar depression (no insurance), and has been in a bit of a bad way for the last few weeks. I offered to take him to a movie, to the outlet mall, etc..played games with him..watched a movie at home last night, etc..

He finally admitted that he is a "broken man" who "has no hope where he used to". I truly believe that some therapy, slight medication, gym membership, and job (he just got out of a DV situation where he was the victim, and lives with me now) would mostly do the trick....

He has an interview tmrw, so I am stoked as can be about that. But any ideas are welcome..he is in a bit of hibernation mode right now, in anticipation of his interview, so maybe i should just leave him alone for now....

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onrealityofdreams · M

It sounds like you being who you are and being there for him is exactly what he needs. You're giving him space while letting him know you're available. For some that is priceless.

foldedunfolding · 41-45, F

@onrealityofdreams aww thank you, i really appreciate that

onrealityofdreams · M

@foldedunfolding You're welcome. How is he now?

foldedunfolding · 41-45, F

@onrealityofdreams he actually had a better today..gave him space until he came out of his own accord! tysm for checking up on him!!

onrealityofdreams · M

@foldedunfolding You're welcome. I'm glad he's up and around and had a better day. I think it's because of your good care.

foldedunfolding · 41-45, F

@onrealityofdreams oh shh he is a sweetie..i am just out here tryin..ty love

onrealityofdreams · M

@foldedunfolding It sounds like you're doing more than just trying. You're succeeding in taking care of a friend.