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A Friend I Met Here "Broke Up With Me"

And she did it with a text. No phone call or chance to talk about it. Just messaged me and said good bye.
We met online here about 3 years ago. Exchanged numbers and became good friends. She lives across the country. Talked about meeting, but never really got around to it.
We were close. I helped her through some tough times.
She would say "I Love You" every time we ended a phone call. But it wasn't romantic. Although we both had deep feelings for each other. And talking to her was a daily thing. 4 or 5 phone calls a day.

And she just "broke up with me".

Granted, she just got into a new relationship. But she's developed relationships with men before, some serious, and always still looked to me for advice, companionship and as somebody to talk to.

Here's the thing. I worry about her. She has had mental issues in the past. And has gone through men rapidly. But maybe this guy's for real. I mean I hope so. I wish her nothing but happiness.

Just weird she couldn't call and let me know she's moving on over the phone.

I already miss her calls. Miss being needed perhaps.

Just doesn't seem right.
I feel bad when guys get treated this way. Men are more inclined to fixing and helping and I think that leads to you getting used. I’m sorry. I have mental issues and haven’t dated in years. I can’t stand the thought of hurting someone else with my problems. Or making them care for me when I’m unstable. I’m really sorry you got treated that way.
It’s really sad when that happens. But some people don’t know how own their decisions and have the decency to say goodbye.

I hope this will not make you lose hope that are more thoughtful people out there. Be well.
uncalled4 · 56-60, M
I've met a few emotional vampires in my time. Last time, when she was done, she was all set to have this drama-filled last encounter and I just said "Bye!" Enough bullshit.

She was clearly getting what she needed elsewhere and didn't need you. She's probably doing it to someone else now.
Starcrossed · 41-45, F
Awww that sounds cruel and painful, I'm sorry she did that to you.
WrngWlf · 46-50, F
Dearest John, you are right. I just vanished without saying goodbye properly. I cannot undue what I've done. I'm so sorry. I really do miss you. I love you so much and I am so sorry I hurt you. Lisa
MissingLink · 51-55, M
I can understand, had a similar relationship with someone, they have disappeared.
antonioioio · 70-79, M
3 years you said and did not meet
So she did not give the chance of ceasing the moment 🤔
JimboSaturn · 51-55, M
That sucks
SW-User
Relatable

😞
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
I am sorry, that’s awful that she threw you away like that.

 
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