This is why I don’t add you as a friend

Sure, you’re decent for the most part, which shows you could actually value me as a friend to some extent. But you frequently message me when you know I’m drunk and aroused, and regardless if you know I am or not, you still try engaging me in sexual chats. I’m a sexual object to you first and a friend second. But you’re not the first and you sure won’t be the last…

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OlderSometimesWiser · F

Good instincts. Doesn’t sound like friend material to me.

Ducky · 31-35, F

@OlderSometimesWiser This is why I connect better with and am more receptive to other women. I wish I was a lesbian, then it’d be a lot easier. 😂

OlderSometimesWiser · F

@Ducky Platonic female friendships aren’t so bad either. 🙂

Ducky · 31-35, F

@OlderSometimesWiser I’ve had a couple of those on here. 😊 Even if I may borderline obsess over how pretty they are, it’s comparable to how I feel about my sister. I swoon over her all the time, but I’m no Southerner

OlderSometimesWiser · F

@Ducky I tend to feel that the more people you have in your corner, the better. And returning the favor is a nice feeling too.

Ducky · 31-35, F

@OlderSometimesWiser I was trying to be funny. 😅 I meant I adore how beautiful my sister is and am obviously not sexually attracted to her, have straight female friends who I find downright beautiful but have zero other attraction towards. 🙃

Convivial · 26-30, F

@Ducky admiring and desiring are two different things