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No Best Friends..

When I was in high school, I had one best friend, She was like a sister and we continued our friendship after graduation. After I had my baby, our friendship dissolved slowly. I guess we really didn't know each other like we thought and it wasn't meant to last. Ever since then, I never considered anyone a best friend.
I can never give anyone that title again in life. It takes a lot of energy trying to figure out why someone doesn't want to talk to you anymore and it hurts.
Eddiesolds · 61-69, M
I miss my best friend. 5 years now. Not a day goes by that i dont think about her.
I had 3.

Most Best friends become just friends after marriage.

After a kid, it goes to acquaintance.

This is pretty normal, because you won't have enough time to spend on every relationship.
Cloud7593 · 46-50, F
People are very fickle. It drives me nuts.
BeautifulLibra · 46-50, F
@Cloud7593 Yes it does
Dv8rs · 18-21, F
Unless your friends have babies you, having a baby is like friend repellent. Your attention and your time are dedicated to your child, as it should be. Be satisfied with that for now. There will be future opportunities for you to make other, and perhaps better friends.
originnone · 61-69, M
My guess is that you're reading too much into that. If I'm wrong, it's because I'm thinking you think like me. Normally, people aren't even thinking about us.
BeautifulLibra · 46-50, F
@originnone 🤔🤔 I'm okay now of course but back then it was puzzling to me and hard to accept. That experience and others as well have taught me a lot of lessons.
Rhode57 · 56-60, M
I only ever had 2 best friends . 1 I cut off after he broke the law and I wont go into it . 2 I lost her and her husband to the big C .
BeautifulLibra · 46-50, F
@Rhode57 Ok. I'm sorry for your loss..
Rhode57 · 56-60, M
@BeautifulLibra Thankyou I miss her to this day . We had a connection and understanding I never had with anyone else she really got me .
spice1 · M
It's common especially since you had a baby and she didn't, I miss my best friend too and don't have anyone I call best friend.
It does, indeed. 😔
hunkalove · 61-69, M
I was very much aware when my friends got married and had babies and mortgages they no longer wanted to hang out and smoke pot and listen to music with me. Never understood it.
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BeautifulLibra · 46-50, F
@Caleidoscope Oh I see.. you're right. When you have social anxiety disorder, it takes that special "friend " to understand that. It can be taken as something else if you don't understand the condition. (Misunderstood)

 
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