Would you consider this the truth

I got told I was self centered by someone who has known me a week . Would you take that as the truth or not listen because they barely know you ?

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GlassDog · 46-50, M

I guess I'd ask them why they think so. It's entirely possible they've taken something you said incorrectly because they don't know you. Either way, you might learn something about how are being perceived.

pastelrose · 26-30, F

@GlassDog: he said because I didn't ask him how his friend is doing who's parents died . Idk this friend of his .

GlassDog · 46-50, M

@pastelrose: I think he's being a bit unreasonable there. That doesn't make you self-centred.

pastelrose · 26-30, F

@GlassDog: ah goof I'm glad someone else thinks that

ambernichellle · 22-25, F

It kind of depends on their reason. If they can't give you a specific and valid example of you being self-centered then their opinion is irrelevant in my point of view. I think it's less about how long they've known you and more about how much effort they put into getting to know you.

JustLikeGreta · F

I would find out for myself. I don't believe idol gossip.

pastelrose · 26-30, F

@ColleenOhara: he told me I was self centered . He told me directly

JustLikeGreta · F

@pastelrose: Some peeps simply enjoy hurting others. Very sad, lose him as a friend.

SW-User

don't listen to them
yesterday someone insulted me
when they don't know you, just laugh it off

Jackaloftheazuresand · 26-30, M

How well do you know them? I'd believe it if it were someone like me for example.

Lilnonames · F

Why dwell on a strangers comment be who u r and say fuck it
I don't know you but if your so worried about tdhis then u do have issues

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