Has a friend ever actually told you that they couldn't be friends with you anymore for some reason ?
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yep and some dont even give a reason.. lost a friend i had for about a decade just because he started to drink and i didnt drink. lost an online friend because i didnt fool around with people and they seen me as someone who didnt fit with their lifestyle. had other people who just cut me out and didnt even say why just acted totally rude when ever you try to say hi or what not.
Unsatisfiedstace · 51-55, F
I'm sorry that happened. I find things like that hurtful when they happen....but if that isn't how they want to feel...I won't try to change their mind. I will accept it as the lesson that they were brought into my life to teach me - or me teach them - is done. It is difficult but what can you do?
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Yeah that's how I see it. I can't do anything
Unsatisfiedstace · 51-55, F
@Purpleintelligence: I hate when people leave....this place has taught me many times about how to cope with it.
((Hugs))
((Hugs))
Socialclutz · 36-40, M
Yeah my friend after 10 years said this to me while I was experiencing a schizophrenic episode
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Flenflyys · 31-35, F
Sounds like it might be really acidic? I have that issue anyway so I need to get some lime@crabbyhermit:
Socialclutz · 36-40, M
Acidicity prevents compost from happening or you think the soil acidity killed the raspberry?
Flenflyys · 31-35, F
Idk if it would kill it, like raspberries grow in the acidic soil here. It would maybe stunt their growth I think@crabbyhermit:
Karmalives · 51-55, M
subliminally yes. My group of friends abandoned me because i wasn't really happy anymore due to things out of my control and as a result stopped talking to me all together. That and I refused to date this girl they tried to set me up with even though i had zero interest in her
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Flenflyys · 31-35, F
The only time was when I told an ex we could stay in contact but only as friends and he said no he could only be together so that was it
Whuuut, what's their reason?
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Her boyfriend is kind of jealous of me. Me and her go way back and we aren't into eachother at all in a intimate way. In fact when I had nowhere to go at one point in my life, she took me into her home and took care of me for a little bit. And he knows this. We live in different states now, so we don't see eachother personally, we shoot a how are you text maybe once every few weeks or something so it's barely anything. But I said I wasn't going to be a problem.
Xena1234 · 51-55, F
@Purpleintelligence: I had a person I thought was my friend for many, many years. I did everything I could do to help her and wanted nothing in return. Her sister is extremely jealous of me. She suddenly gave me the silent treatment. I left her a message asking what was wrong, and no reply in a week. I am sure her sister told her to stop talking to me. People like that are Not real friends. They are weak and disloyal.
twistermind · 51-55, F
Sorry to hear that.
I can't come across a good reason when adults.
I can't come across a good reason when adults.
CrazyCatLady · 36-40, F
Yeah, I was told I was a bad influence XD
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How so?
CrazyCatLady · 36-40, F
For stupid reasons. Her parents were very conservative, like extremely, we were teenagers and even make up was banned for her.
And I used to dress always in dark, smokey eyes, etc.
I actually didn't do anything bad, but I "seemed" like a bad influence.
And I used to dress always in dark, smokey eyes, etc.
I actually didn't do anything bad, but I "seemed" like a bad influence.
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@CrazyCatLady: that's a cheap way to profile someone's character. Unfortunate.
taintedprincess · 46-50, F
On here or irl?
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Real life
taintedprincess · 46-50, F
@Purpleintelligence: sorry that happened, for me not a friend..my sis disowned me though
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@Damagedgoods: that's cold
UndeadPrivateer · 31-35, M
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lostinparadise · 31-35, F
Yeah kind of sucks especially if you've been friends for years