Let me pose a serious question to my friends and post and reply to steady recipients here.

Say we all met in real life for breakfast and a day just enjoying life together in person as real friends do. Would you be comfortable with me dressed as Willa, or would you want me to be dressed as my regular William self.

Be honest, because I have sat here and thought how wonderful some of you all are here, and if we ever met in person as "Friends" how would you feel comfortable with me being, especially since you all 99.9% of you here only know me as Willa.

This is just a God's honest simple question I have pondered for quite a while, and I decided to ask it openly without any judgement either way to your honest replies.

Sincerely Willa that can be known as William at different times.

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TexChik · F

I want to meet you as who you are. Being a fellow PTSD sufferer I understand completely how you want to do what makes you fell better ( being Willa). However, it's William that I want to meet. A man’s man. A warrior, a patriot, a skilled Carpenter, a hunter and woodsman! Those things make up the wonderful things that created William. The horrors and pain that created Willa would break my heart. I have no problem or issue with Willa other than if she is present, you are in pain. 😊

WillaKissing · 56-60, M

@TexChik Excellent my dear lady excellent. Meeting you and your hubby at breakfast I would be William and maybe do a hog hunt of fishing excursion after breakfast and coffee.

I would have to know your hubby was comfortable with me as Willa. I would not want to upset you or your hubby, but I am open to share if that is what was okay to do.