Do you ever find yourself a part of a group and come to terms with the fact that they're just acquaintances and not your friends?
It's sad at first, then freeing. Then it's like you want to cut them off like a dried branch. But it still has flowers (aka memories/connection) so you find yourself in a dilemma.
To cut off fully or to just cut partly and save the parts salvageable (even if it is just for show)?
One of the best and wisest advices someone in SW said to me was that humans spend most of their time on people who are really just acquaintances and not their friends without realizing it.
I had long realized it is true. But only recently did I start to accept it fully.
I understand now.
It is indeed freeing. Letting go is a part of life. I want to make and start my own table with just selected friends who are handpicked by yours truly :) That is my goal now.
I want to be around people who value me and what and who I care about the same way I value myself or close to that or more.
To accept nothing less and be part of nothing less.
To cut off fully or to just cut partly and save the parts salvageable (even if it is just for show)?
One of the best and wisest advices someone in SW said to me was that humans spend most of their time on people who are really just acquaintances and not their friends without realizing it.
I had long realized it is true. But only recently did I start to accept it fully.
I understand now.
It is indeed freeing. Letting go is a part of life. I want to make and start my own table with just selected friends who are handpicked by yours truly :) That is my goal now.
I want to be around people who value me and what and who I care about the same way I value myself or close to that or more.
To accept nothing less and be part of nothing less.
