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Males can you be just friends with a female you find sexy?

Like you want to sleep with her could you still be friends and not try to sleep with her
Degbeme · 70-79, M
This would be my wife....

Wanting to and then making a move are two separate things.
Prettybratbi1tch · 26-30, F
AuRevoir · 36-40, M
50% of women are attractive in some way or other.. And then there’s that 1% where a person actually wants to date someone.. and make a relationship happen..

I’m pretty sure friends with girls is easier when you already have someone in your life.. because you no longer need to go out and try to find someone for yourself or your romantic interests as you have someone that fulfills and satisfies you..

But it would be difficult if you’re single because Hope would exist and maybes and what ifs would pop up in your mind.. I think it could never be just friends during that.. because there will always be some kind of lingering potential.. if you do remain friends with someone while single, that you’re attracted to them to such a degree as wanting sex with them.. it’s likely more from a distance.. as the closer you are to that friend the more you would want them for yourself.. the more you would hope… and the more you would hurt yourself in the long run, as the disappointment would be, your hopes and dreams becoming unfulfilled and facing rejection instead..

I’m just going off my own experiences.. if I’m not attracted to the girl it’s easier to be just friends.. if my interests are in another girl.. then I probably don’t even think of that friend that way.. so she’s not even on the radar of being “sexy” etc..
Fairydust · F
They always want in ya pants 🩲🤭
Fairydust · F
@PhilDeep
Yes! I read the books too.
PhilDeep · 51-55, M
@Fairydust Hilarious, but I didn't read the third, did you?
Fairydust · F
@PhilDeep

Yes 🙌🏻 I always think the books are better but I did enjoy the movies.
BlueVeins · 22-25
Queendragonfly · 31-35, F
It's creepy. Even if you don't sleep with her you're still drooling behind her back.
SW-User
There’s a difference between thinking someone is attractive and being attracted to them.
Prettybratbi1tch · 26-30, F
@SW-User yeah there is but my question is about him finding her sexually attractive
SW-User
@Prettybratbi1tch I think it’s usually only a problem if feelings come into it. Sometimes just because they’re attractive doesn’t mean want to sleep with them. Some people just don’t click.
Ceci13 · 51-55, F
Well I can but men can't seem to. Also I have a husband and he's like who's this clown even if he met the friend 299 times and of course that question "did y'all ever hook up" did you want to" lol he though has female friends from HS and College and I'm not supposed to question (I don't of course because I'm not listening) I know he did some stuff with at least one Im not too jealous well too much because I have already handled that and it was fun doing it
Briggett · T
@Ceci13 woo what did you do
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TheRascallyOne · 31-35, M
Could you starve to death at a buffet?
Prettybratbi1tch · 26-30, F
@TheRascallyOne so no then huh
TheRascallyOne · 31-35, M
@Prettybratbi1tch absolutely not
The top smaller brain can but the bigger controlling brain cannot
Deceased · M
I've done that most of my life. One of my two closest friends and I have been friends for over ten years and I've never tried to sleep with her and she's totally my type.
Having a female friend I think is sexy would be cool. I'd maintain it as friends just to hang out. I actually do have some self control.
Prettybratbi1tch · 26-30, F
@BrewCityBarfly damn 👏👏
saintsong · 41-45, F
Jesus Christ said that if you even look upon a woman to have desire for her that you've already committed adultery in your heart with her!
PhilDeep · 51-55, M
I think it's possible to notice a woman is sexually attractive, but that's not the same as wanting to have sex with her. Yes, for sure it's possible to be just friends. Finding someone sexually attractive doesn't necessarily mean one will fall in love with her. It's the falling in love bit that would be difficult for someone like me, more than noticing she's only sexually attractive.
hippyjoe1955 · 61-69, M
TBH I have never had a female friend that I was not intimate with. I have lots of female acquaintances that I do not consider my friend. They are not my enemy but they are not my friend either. They are just people I know. Any female friend I have had eventually led to sexual intecourse of one form or another. Often she initiated and other times I initiated almost against my better judgement.
SW-User
I have 3 girls at work close to my age & single, all are very pretty/cute but we are friends only. Work & sexual feelings never mix.

We go to the pub sometimes for lunch, all have a times over the last 2 years been surfing with me, I'm close to all & share a hug & kiss on birthdays Eg.

Friendship is something I would not try to loss due to lust.
th3r0n · 41-45, M
To be real, I can easily be friends with a woman I'm attracted to and not even want anything like that from her

I don't want to have sex before getting married at all though

And at this point I only want to marry my best friend Brii

I do have pretty friends I'm just friends with
Virgo79 · 61-69, M
I've done it a few times
BOREDAFPA · 41-45, M
Yep. Never been an issue
black4white · 56-60, M
It can be done as long as she is cool with a bit of flirting... then over time it just fades away... but then at some point i am sure one of her friends will appeal to you AND that is a whole new story. LoL
Freetime · 56-60, M
I've had a number of attractive female friends and I have not slept with any of them, despite the fact that my wife wants nothing to do with me sexually.
Orangehotrod · 61-69, M
Nope based on my wife I don’t think it could be done!
Orangehotrod · 61-69, M
@VeronicaJane the guys she was just friends with she still ended up in bed with!
Did she instigate it, or the guys, @Orangehotrod?
Orangehotrod · 61-69, M
@VeronicaJane I’m pretty sure she did!
QCDog2659 · 61-69, M
It is probable that I could do it.
QCDog2659 · 61-69, M
@Prettybratbi1tch If she did not want to sleep with me, I would, of course, not put any moves on her.

After some time, the desire to sleep with her will ebb.

After all, even the best.steak dinner becomes undesirable if you know that you cannot ever eat it.
Queendragonfly · 31-35, F
@QCDog2659 unless you want forbidden fruit because it is forbidden.
QCDog2659 · 61-69, M
@Queendragonfly Not really an attraction for me.
I can be friends with someone cute, but if I think them as sexy then It would be really hard.
Magenta · F
I've never believed it. It happens or not based on opportunity mostly.

Especially going by what you said.. [quote]Like you want to sleep with her could you still be friends and not try to sleep with her[/quote]
I like to think I can be "just friends" with females.....

My wife doesn't quite see it that way.... 🤣🤣
StevetheSleeve · 31-35, M
Probably not. I’d have that uncomfortable conversation explaining it to her.
NowOk · M
Yes, i County be attracted sexually but still keep my distance
cerealguy · 26-30, M
Nope. I don't befriend in the first place
SW-User
We can be friends with benefits 😁
Dethmoore · 31-35, M
Nah. It’s always on the table.
Yes I can be a friend to a woman.
apparently not.
MrBrownstone · 46-50, M
I have before
uncalled4 · 56-60, M
Done it for years.
Magenta · F
well.. im not going to be unfriendly :)
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
I haven’t come across a man who could just be friends
Prettybratbi1tch · 26-30, F
@iamonfire696 neither have I but I heard it’s possible 🤷‍♀️
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
@Prettybratbi1tch I have heard the same too but I haven’t come across it myself.
SmallMack · 31-35, M
@iamonfire696 i agree theres a few women that i guess i fell into the friendzone with and that wasnt my original intent its hard just to be friends
DDonde · 31-35, M
I agree with AuRevoir's answer here.
Lilnonames · F
Nope they could not lil brain would win

 
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